crashvector Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 we were planning to be at her house, cook some dinner together..and kiss at midnight. I have nowhere else to be except home alone. I'm not from the place where I live, so I dont really have any friends here...just my ex fiancee. Being lonely sucks SO much.
Just smile Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 Oh man, I know how you feel. I've spent every New Year's Eve with this guy for four solid years. This year my kids will be with their father and I most likely will be alone. Friends have dates, or just hanging home with their families. Christmas I was also home alone. Cried all day.Sucked. I don't know , it's tough, I have no words of wisdom, only that New Year's Eve will be done before we know it. I can't wait.
Pinky777 Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 I know it's tough, but really, it's just another day. If I were you I'd avoid watching the ball drop and all of that good stuff, ,it's just going to make you more upset. Get some good take out, put on your favorite comedies and just try to get through it as best you can.
NoMoreJerks Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 we were planning to be at her house, cook some dinner together..and kiss at midnight. I have nowhere else to be except home alone. I'm not from the place where I live, so I dont really have any friends here...just my ex fiancee. Being lonely sucks SO much. I know the feeling. It was only less than 2 weeks ago that he was telling me we'd see each other again in a few days, and would spend Christmas and New Year's Eve together... only to dump me 2 days before Christmas. Spent Christmas at home, on my own, because he had blown me off last minute and ruined any travel plans I had entertained before he told me he was going to visit me. Spending New Year's Eve on my own as well. All my friends and family are out of town.. Spending it on Loveshack, most probably. Just getting some wine or beer, maybe cooking something (if I'm in the mood), and watching some movie(s). I don't have a TV so I can't watch any live New Year's celebrations. Overrated anyway. Christmas was definitely more depressing. I can't wait for New Year's to pass. This was the worst 2 weeks of vacation I've EVER had.. Mostly spent it crying/in bed.
mike588 Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 we were planning to be at her house, cook some dinner together..and kiss at midnight. I have nowhere else to be except home alone. I'm not from the place where I live, so I dont really have any friends here...just my ex fiancee. Being lonely sucks SO much. Been there done that...more than once. It's normal and ok if your in a sad...depressed crappy mood during the holidays but it does get better. The 1st "holidays"alone after a breakup are always tough but it's not the end of the world and there can/will be many good holidays ahead. Learn from the breakup..better yourself and do your best to move on...I know it's hard but you will get thru this a better...stronger and wiser person. 1
Samilia Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 You can be home alone but it doesn't mean it has to suck. You can make it miserable or you can buy some good food and do something like you like to do. It might not be the best new year's night ever but you can make the best of it. 1
LostOne1 Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 Well this yr I WANT to do something. I normally spend it with family and this yr I don't want too. So I may spend it with a few friends at a friends house.. I wanted to head out to some party, but hear drinks cost too much on new yrs eve everywhere. So I;'ll see what I do.. but I wanna do something different this year. I think being at home will suck. Being alone does suck, which is why I rather head out somewhere. I think it would be more depressing to be at home and know a new yr has started and your just sitting there alone. I rather spend it at a food place or party or just somewhere.. anywhere with a few people around to talk too.
Author crashvector Posted December 30, 2012 Author Posted December 30, 2012 Oh man, I know how you feel. I've spent every New Year's Eve with this guy for four solid years. This year my kids will be with their father and I most likely will be alone. Friends have dates, or just hanging home with their families. Christmas I was also home alone. Cried all day.Sucked. I don't know , it's tough, I have no words of wisdom, only that New Year's Eve will be done before we know it. I can't wait. Christmas will never be the same for me after this for sure...getting told by the woman I was SO excited to marry in 5 months that she no longer wanted to marry me and wanted to end the relationship two days after Christmas. I want my baby back...but I cant have her. I just want all this crap to be over.... 1
mike588 Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 Christmas will never be the same for me after this for sure...getting told by the woman I was SO excited to marry in 5 months that she no longer wanted to marry me and wanted to end the relationship two days after Christmas. I want my baby back...but I cant have her. I just want all this crap to be over.... Christmas will eventually be the same and better for you after you get past the pain and hurt. Your not alone...all of us will go thru this at some point in our lifes and one day will look back on this as a growing and learning experience. I know it's difficult but one day you'll see. Trust me.
Author crashvector Posted December 30, 2012 Author Posted December 30, 2012 Christmas will eventually be the same and better for you after you get past the pain and hurt. Your not alone...all of us will go thru this at some point in our lifes and one day will look back on this as a growing and learning experience. I know it's difficult but one day you'll see. Trust me. Please just keep telling me that....hopefully it will sink in.
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