Christopher82 Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 Hey guys, I've been single for about 2 weeks, but was in a two year relationship, the last 6 months of which were verbally and emotionally abusive. With that being said, I've spent this time with no contact with me ex and improving my life slowly but surely. Today I was out getting my hair cut today and had a really kind and beautiful girl. We hit it off and talked about things that aren't typically talked about in those scenarios. She mentioned 2 or 3 times that she was single. When I went to pay, I asked for her business card which she handed to me and made a point of putting her cell number on there as well. Two questions: 1.) Should I take this as a nod to give her a call and see if she wants to go out some time, or should I not look at this too much? 2.) Should I text her? Would that be considered creepy? If I so text her and cheat her up a bit, how long should I wait to do so? Thanks everyone.
TheZebra Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 Don't text. Call. You got her number today, right? Give her a call tomorrow, see if you can schedule a date for next Friday. If she wasn't interested, she wouldn't have given you her cell too. 2
sweetkiwi Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 Call. It's more direct and i appreciate it a lot more. I am a hair stylist and i hardly ever gave my number out. Call her. Whenever you want. If she gets weirded out that you called too soon she's weird. 1
MrCastle Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 Doesn't really matter if you call or text. If she genuinely likes you, she'll be happy to hear from you. I would give her a call or send her a text Monday. 2
LazyPomato Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 Please don't text. Wait a day and call that girl. She thinks you're cute.
Art_Critic Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 You call... Part of putting your best foot forward is not showing your too lazy or disinterested to call and only text her. 3
Cutiepie1976 Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 Call her today or tomorrow. She's interested, that's why she gave you her cell number. 1
TheBigQuestion Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 The answer is never. I've never met a sane hairdresser in my life. 6
Author Christopher82 Posted December 30, 2012 Author Posted December 30, 2012 Does getting a hold of her the same day come across as desperate or clingy, or does it come across as having genuine interest on her? Ladies.... ?
Snowman219 Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 No. She obviously hates your guts and was just being nice. : D Haven't you heard? Hairdressers give out their numbers to everyone cause they are just so awesome! Obvious brag post or complete BS. Can't decide which.
Nightsky Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 You should have asked her out in person when she made a point of putting her personal number on the card. Ask her out sooner than later if you like her.
Author Christopher82 Posted December 30, 2012 Author Posted December 30, 2012 No. She obviously hates your guts and was just being nice. : D Haven't you heard? Hairdressers give out their numbers to everyone cause they are just so awesome! Obvious brag post or complete BS. Can't decide which. Yes, right. I came here to brag to a bunch of people I don't know on the Internet, lol! Please...
Samilia Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 Call her. I don't think you're bragging either. I have to go get a haircut soon too, but my hairdresser is 23 and gay
Cutiepie1976 Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 Does getting a hold of her the same day come across as desperate or clingy, or does it come across as having genuine interest on her? Ladies.... ? Genuine interest. I wouldn't call on Friday/Saturday night though. Call her mid-afternoon if it's the weekend. Clingy and desperate is calling repeatedly when she doesn't respond.
Cutiepie1976 Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 Call her. I don't think you're bragging either. I have to go get a haircut soon too, but my hairdresser is 23 and gay Mine is an attractive woman, but I'm not bi...
TheBigQuestion Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 The answer is never. I've never met a sane hairdresser in my life. Seriously though, I say go for it. They may be nuts but they're usually very fun. 1
Art_Critic Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 Seriously though, I say go for it. They may be nuts but they're usually very fun. I learned the hard way about dating hairdressers and having them cut your hair.. when they are pissed at you it shows up in the quality of the cut... buzzzzzzz, opps.. sorry
edgygirl Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 I would text first. I never take calls from numbers I don't recognize. Re-introduce yourself and ask when she's available to talk on the phone.
TheZebra Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 My hair dresser is the most handsome guy I know. Gorgeous face and a body I would LOVE to, well, you know. Amazing personality too. Gay though
Nightsky Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 My hair dresser is the most handsome guy I know. Gorgeous face and a body I would LOVE to, well, you know. Amazing personality too. Gay though I'm not gay! Or a hairdresser... I should get my hair done by a girl I'd want to date... But I like the person who cuts my hair even though I would never date her... sooo I probably won't do that
Lobouspo Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 The answer is never. I've never met a sane hairdresser in my life. Lol at this, I dated my hairdresser, and when things didnt work out, I had to get my hair cut at another location. Just too awkward.....but dang I sure do miss those scalp massages by her
Eternal Sunshine Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 Are we sharing hair-dresser stories? My hairdresser is super-sleazy. He is 53 and single and he looks like a body builder. He goes out to night clubs every week, lies about his age (he can get away with it). Every appointment, he talks about some girl he banged and in general makes sexual references non-stop. He is really good at what he does, otherwise - I wouldn't tolerate it. Last week, he got me to play a prank on his daughter (that is my age) and introduce me as his new girlfriend. That was towards the end of the appointment at the salon. I kind of LOL-ed.
toofartogo Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 I would text first. I never take calls from numbers I don't recognize. Re-introduce yourself and ask when she's available to talk on the phone. ^^^This, and the sooner the better. Sometimes you lose something by waiting. As someone said, it's only clingy if you text or call too much. But a text to see if she's available to talk is very considerate w/o going overboard on that.
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