Why is he acting this way???

[cellisx]

To make a long story short I ended up hooking up with one of my neighbors who lives literally right across the hall from me. We hooked up like 5 times within a week. Now he's been completely ignoring me the past couple of weeks. I have only texted him like 3 times since then and the last time I texted him was Christmas Eve to say Merry Christmas and he hasn't responded of course. I'm not going to text him at all.. hoping it will make him wonder why I haven't. But I get tempted to go and knock on his door and ask him what his problem is LOL but I'm definitely not going to do that either. Is there a chance he's still thinking about me at all? Or should I just completely forget about him? Go back to how it was before we started hooking up?

[TaraMaiden]

Forget it.

Be aloof, and indifferent.

Let it go, and write it off as a mutually enjoyable moment.

Don't let it bug you.

[Cutiepie1976]

You both wanted a hookup. Don't try to turn it into a relationship after the fact. That's why he's ignoring you. You should do the same.

 

If you want a relationship, date the person first and make sure you're on the same page before you sleep with him.

[veggirl]

I would assume he's into someone else or he was using you for sex/hook up (whatever hook up is, if its not sex). He doesn't want to give you the wrong impression...doesn't want you to think anything is gonna happen between you as far as relationships go. never ever ever text a guy 3x without getting a response! You can text once and if he doesn't respond you can send ONE MORE. that's it. Don't go to his door.

[Gottabestrong]

Sounds like he is no longer interested and he hopes you get the message without him having to actually spell it out. Many people rather ignore than send a message saying they are not interested.

 

Save your pride and don't contact him anymore. Find someone else!