DigitalWabbit Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 (edited) I'm 19. I've been dating with a girl for almost 1 year. She's 15. I really loved her from all my heart. I entered the relationship without wanting sex, because of her age. I simply entered because I liked her and got along perfectly with her. We had a date and when I got home, she texts me.. Suddenly she tells me she's too young for touching and she gave me an ultimatum: I should stop the touching or find another girl for myself. Because she's too young and she feels dirty when doing it. Then she told me she felt dirty after every date until now and that she doesn't feel like she needs the touching and she feels like she's doing something immoral. There was no sexual harassment or anything. Nothing more than the touching we've had the whole year of relationship... Is she trying to break up with me? Not to mention that she hasn't told me she loved me for about 2 months.. I'm really sad about this.. Edited December 29, 2012 by DigitalWabbit
TheZebra Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 This is a world of trouble for you to be dating someone so young. If she is breaking it off, be thankful. Anywho, I was once in her shoes.. 15 years old dating a 19 year old. My parents didn't know about it but when they found out... I got an earful from them. They didn't forbid me to see him, or yell at me until my ears hurt. Instead, they opened my eyes as to how messed up it was that this 19 year old guy was preying on someone who was barely a freshman in high school. When I realized how terrible of an idea it all was I called him up and broke it off. He couldn't believe it... he cried a lot, more than me. But it just wasn't right. 4 years isn't a lot when you're in your 20s or above, but when you're talking between a freshman in high school and a freshman in college? Don't go there, man.
TaraMaiden Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 You're breaking the law. Run a mile, leave her be and don't look back. This is serious trouble, man, honest. You are sooo busted. Hope she doesn't tell her parents, or else you are going to have a lot of explaining to do - to the nice police officer....
Author DigitalWabbit Posted December 29, 2012 Author Posted December 29, 2012 (edited) This is a world of trouble for you to be dating someone so young. If she is breaking it off, be thankful. Anywho, I was once in her shoes.. 15 years old dating a 19 year old. My parents didn't know about it but when they found out... I got an earful from them. They didn't forbid me to see him, or yell at me until my ears hurt. Instead, they opened my eyes as to how messed up it was that this 19 year old guy was preying on someone who was barely a freshman in high school. When I realized how terrible of an idea it all was I called him up and broke it off. He couldn't believe it... he cried a lot, more than me. But it just wasn't right. 4 years isn't a lot when you're in your 20s or above, but when you're talking between a freshman in high school and a freshman in college? Don't go there, man. Actually, I called it off after she told me that. I realized that I was only hurting her, if she thinks I make her feel dirty and she never liked it... I cried a lot, more than she did, most probably. I'm trying to remain friends with her, but I'm still looking for opinions, why did it happen... Why did she change her mind all of the sudden. Thank you for your answer. You're breaking the law. Run a mile, leave her be and don't look back. This is serious trouble, man, honest. You are sooo busted. Hope she doesn't tell her parents, or else you are going to have a lot of explaining to do - to the nice police officer.... The legal consent age in my country is 15. I'm not really breaking the law here if I don't have any intercourse with her. Her parents know about it and I've even met them in person for few times... But she has changed, I don't know why.. Edited December 29, 2012 by DigitalWabbit
TaraMaiden Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 15.... her mind isn't fully formed yet.... but you think it's ok to do this with a 15-year-old? Bottom limit, really, isn't it? Is that why you call yourself 'DigitalWabbit'... because of your proclivity to use the manual approach? Frankly, I find that tasteless, too....
Shaun-Dro Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 I'm 19. I've been dating with a girl for almost 1 year. She's 15. I really loved her from all my heart. I entered the relationship without wanting sex, because of her age. I simply entered because I liked her and got along perfectly with her. We had a date and when I got home, she texts me.. Suddenly she tells me she's too young for touching and she gave me an ultimatum: I should stop the touching or find another girl for myself. Because she's too young and she feels dirty when doing it. Then she told me she felt dirty after every date until now and that she doesn't feel like she needs the touching and she feels like she's doing something immoral. There was no sexual harassment or anything. Nothing more than the touching we've had the whole year of relationship... Is she trying to break up with me? Not to mention that she hasn't told me she loved me for about 2 months.. I'm really sad about this.. She's a silly young dame playing games to piss you off. It's a stupid game and very immature, and yes, that's her way in breaking up with you. But what else did you expect from a 15 year old?!
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