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My ex and I were together for 5 years and broke up about a month ago (nasty breakup), she said its over for good and has given me no reason to think otherwise, went no contact for two weeks and I contacted her and she hurt my feelings again telling me she had no feelings for me anymore and to stop calling and blocked my number... About a week later we talked nicely about a gift I got her right before we broke up that she never recieved to ask if I was going to give it to her, well that was three days ago and she just text me "Knows what's funny...when were together you blamed me for changing your fbook password..and now all of a sudden you can access it.. Humm go figure...Only reason I know is bc ally told me you emailed her" idk if I want her back or to move on but what does this message mean and should I respond one way or the other. What are the pros and cons for me to both situations?

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And if I should respond how long do I wait...it's been almost an hour since I recieved it

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Umm... It doesn't matter if YOU want her back or not. SHE doesn't want you back. So all you can do is move on. Don't respond, the text doesn't mean anything. I know 5 years is a long time, but just leave her alone. If you don't, you'll push her further away. No need to have her think any lower of you. Forget about the gift, it doesn't matter anymore.

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What the hell is that stupid text? Ignore. She told you not to talk to her, so why would you respond to that dumbass text?

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Agreed. No need to answer.

Breadcrumbs require no response.

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Now I just got this message just now...Do you by any chance have a pair of my jeans.. my buckle jeans I think I gave them to good will if you don't have them :(

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New years is our anniversary and last time we talked she found out I was going out with my friends for new years, Dk if any relation..I may be over thinking things idk

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And if I should respond how long do I wait...it's been almost an hour since I recieved it

 

She sounds angry. That's good.

 

here is why: the opposite of love is NOT anger. It is indifference.

 

If she is still angry at you, then by default, some part of her still loves you.

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Don't reply. She sounds bitchy and mean. Ignore her and defriend Aly.

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New years is our anniversary and last time we talked she found out I was going out with my friends for new years, Dk if any relation..I may be over thinking things idk

 

Don't let the time of year be an influence. it could have been any time, forget it.

 

And no - do not respond to anything from anyone, for any reason at any time (I guarantee you will completely Ignore This Advice.)

 

I get the feeling you just want to tell us every detail, but you're avoiding the advice. This is in the hope that someone will actually say - "Hell, yeah, why not? Reply to everything, it's all good!"

 

Well it's not, and we're not going to say that.

Delete, block, ignore, and get rid of that dumb 'mutual friend. She's not a friend. She's a schytt-stirrer.

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omg. "do you have my jeans?"

 

:rolleyes::rolleyes:

 

do not respond.

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My ex and I were together for 5 years and broke up about a month ago (nasty breakup), she said its over for good and has given me no reason to think otherwise, went no contact for two weeks and I contacted her and she hurt my feelings again telling me she had no feelings for me anymore and to stop calling and blocked my number... About a week later we talked nicely about a gift I got her right before we broke up that she never recieved to ask if I was going to give it to her, well that was three days ago and she just text me "Knows what's funny...when were together you blamed me for changing your fbook password..and now all of a sudden you can access it.. Humm go figure...Only reason I know is bc ally told me you emailed her" idk if I want her back or to move on but what does this message mean and should I respond one way or the other. What are the pros and cons for me to both situations?

 

Drama, drama, and more drama. I'd leave it alone, she's picking up a fight.

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