sashabird2010 Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 I always thought when you are in a relationship the person will love you. I have been datinf this guy for almost three years. And i thought he wasnt ever in mood for sex but came to find oout that he used to get off at girls i know or porn sites and when i got home and was in the mood he was never because he got off at that. It made me feel useless and unatractive and worthless. I love him to bits and he says he loves me but when we have any sexual anything i always wonder now if he thinks of me or them. I try my best to please him even that time the month but i guess it wasnt good enough. Never had a problem of rejection from previous relationships. Also we fight alot now. Everything is like a competition in our relationship. He has a problem with gaming. We go out he games ppl come to our house and he games. He doesnt know how show affection in public or wanna try new things. We have just moved into our new place and bought all these new stuff for the place. Thought maybe that would make us happy. But seems like its not. I have never felt for a man like i have for him. Iv actually wanted to spend my life with him. But i dunno what to do. Try talking about it with him but we end up arguing. Iv tried making this work.
Onelife66 Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 He may have a sex/porn addiction. I came out of an aa class recently, so have a lil experience. It ain't you, but unfortunately you will have to deal with it. Look it up, and good luck, no matter what happens.
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