Zocalo Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 Hi all I don't know who to talk to or where to put this topic. I never talk about my problems to anyone ever, but I feel like I have a serious problem and I do not have anyone else to talk to but the internet. I will try to have this short and simple and straight to the point. I cheat on my girlfriends. I am NOT proud of that fact. I have hurt too many people due to my behaviour. My relationships never last longer than 4-5 months MAX. If I'm at a party or at a bar and I see a girl I like I approach her and I flirt and basically go as far as she likes .. I don't feel any guilt or anything towards my girlfriend if she's not there. I know shouldn't see other girls behind my girlfriends back but I cannot contain myself. I am very confident about myself and have a high self-esteem, also people say I am quite good looking so getting girls is not that hard for me :/. Why don't I feel any guilt for having cheated on my girlfriend, sometimes multiple times. And also why do I keep doing the same mistakes, it's like I cannot control myself in those situations. I've ruined too many relationships and I never learn my lesson. I think I need to see someone about this problem. Sorry for the English, not my native language.
Clockwork Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 I'll say the same thing I would have said to Tiger Woods if he asked me this question. You are not ready for a relationship. Don't be in one. You have far too many wild oats to sow, so I would get it out of your system so that when you do find the right girl, you don't hurt her.
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