TheDovic Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 Hi everyone, I have been dating a girl for the past six months and up until recently things have been going well. However I recently learned that my ex fiance's sister has been trying to get my girlfriend to break up with me. I'm not sure why but I don't really want to know as it's more than likely a lot of rubbish. My girlfriend has taken no notice of this, but ever since this has happened I feel as though there is added pressure to our relationship. I no longer feel comfortable being intimate with her and am starting to find her very annoying! She has also started picking fights over stupid things and I am not the type of person who gets upset over minor issues. When I don't get upset my girlfriend accuses me of ignoring her and argues even more! I don't see myself with someone who likes to create drama, but that is exactly the type of person my girlfriend is. I am strongly thinking about ending things with her but am reluctant at present because these feelings have only been there for the past few weeks. Has anyone else experienced anything like this? And if not does anyone want to offer any advice as to what to do next? Thanks guys, just needed the rant!
orchids Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 I suggest you talk to her about it very straightforwardly. Since you're aware of what may have caused this added pressure, you should let her know, stupid as you think it may be. Just sound her out, ask her how she thinks the both of you can work on the relationship together (especially since 2013 is arriving!) If you really can't stand her, then break up with her - but if you have feelings for her, be honest with her about what these feelings are, and let her know you want to take things forward with her.
mortensorchid Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 How is it that the ex's sister is interferring with you and her? Are they friends? Or are you still talking to the ex's sister? If your gf has no contact with the ex's sister, then you are letting her in. Tell the ex's sister no once, and only once, then walk away from her and go on your merry way with your gf. If your gf is talking to the ex's sister, tell her you are not comfortable with her talking to the sister and ask her not to communicate with her any more. If she continues, then you should reconsider this situation with her as well.
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