littlefeather Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 my partner of 10 years has left me. we have 4 children (the two eldest are his step kids). we have been in counselling for 2 years, things have benn hard for us both circumstantially but him leaving has shocked me to the core. i work hard to distract myself, ive started running and lost weight, i do daily positive affirmations and eat well. but i have obsessive thoughts about him meeting someone else and it haunts me. he still comes here daily to see the kids but soon his apt will be ready and he will have them at his place 3 days on 3 days off. i cant believe this is happening. i cant believe my family is broken. i just want him to come home. in desperation i have tried no contact and looking happy (it reaffirmed to him he had made the right decision as he assumed i was happy cause he had gone), i tried explaining and im ashamed to admit i begged alot too. now were just trying to be amicable and work out the practical stuff, but the pain is unbearable, when will it stop? how can i make him come home?
OJ loved Nicole Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 in desperation i have tried no contact and looking happy (it reaffirmed to him he had made the right decision as he assumed i was happy cause he had gone), i tried explaining and im ashamed to admit i begged alot too. I'm sorry for what you're going through, but... -You cannot play games (NC) to get your ex back -You can't explain why he should love you -You can't beg to get your ex back Only he can decide to love you and come back, there's nothing you can do to convince him. You want someone who loves you for YOU 1000%!
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