Simone84 Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 ...Say it was a rollercoaster relationship, 2.5 years, on and off, you were the one doing most of the 'breaking off' as well as the 'making up'... Then you try to break it off once again, apologise for it the next day - and your ex responds with something they've never said to you before, just two words "**** OFF"... Would you ever bother contacting them again? Would you ever even dare to try? What would be going through your mind in this situation?
KatZee Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 I wouldn't contact them again. Honestly, if you're playing games and breaking up only to "apologize" a day later to try and get back together, just forget it. No one needs to deal with that immaturity, and if someone was doing that to me and I told them to F off, I would hope they'd respect me enough to leave me alone. Relationships aren't games. You're with someone, or you're not. You either stay together and work on problems or you go separate ways. The way you're behaving just puts people on edge. He probably has no idea when you're going to dump him next, and it's really no way to live and that's not a happy or healthy relationship. Do not contact him again. 1
OJ loved Nicole Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 (edited) Then you try to break it off once again, apologise for it the next day Maybe he finally had enough of your back and forth for 2.5 years?? If someone kept on breaking up with me only to make up with me days later, I'd prob tell them to f*ck off too.... Edit: just read the post abv. What Kat said! Edited December 29, 2012 by OJ loved Nicole
crashvector Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 ...Say it was a rollercoaster relationship, 2.5 years, on and off, you were the one doing most of the 'breaking off' as well as the 'making up'... Then you try to break it off once again, apologise for it the next day - and your ex responds with something they've never said to you before, just two words "**** OFF"... Would you ever bother contacting them again? Would you ever even dare to try? What would be going through your mind in this situation? i would think I was being toyed with, and it would hurt me deeply. Remember that you are talking about doing this to another PERSON...who has feelings and a heart...and heart that can be broken. if you have broken his heart multiple times, he would have no reason to trust you anymore. What...you're gonna end up married or something? then what? 10 years from now you tell him you want a divorce because he left the toilet set up one too many times? I could tolerate it ONCE...followed by a heartfelt "I'm so sorry, i made a HUGE mistake and I realize that now. If you can find it in your heart to take me back, i will love you and cherish you and never take you for granted to treat you like that ever again." do it a second time, and my response would be "I'm a very sensitive man...and when you do this, you take a piece of my heart each time. I would always be waiting for the other shoe to drop on the NEXT time you would do this to me. I have treated you VERY well, and have loved you with all my heart. I cannot take the risk of having my heart broken yet again, so as much as I may WANT to take you back and as much as I WANT to believe you, I cannot take the risk of you hurting me anymore." But then again...I AM a very soft-hearted man...and things like this really tend to damage me for a long time...
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 Maybe he finally had enough of your back and forth for 2.5 years?? If someone kept on breaking up with me only to make up with me days later, I'd prob tell them to f*ck off too.... Edit: just read the post abv. What Kat said! I'm not even responding to what you said, I'm responding to how incredibly AWESOME your screen name is. HAHAHAHAHAHAHA. THE GLOVE DID NOT FIT!!!!!!!
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