allenpo123 Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 Is it normal to feel OKAY after making out with a trustworthy male friend? We were both drunk and he was completely gentle, treating me like a real gf. We don't have ANY feelings for each other, we treat each other with great respect and support, and it didn't feel awkward the next day either. We just sort of didn't talk about what happened AT ALL, and just let our usual conversations flow. I kind of feel like a SLUT to let him kiss me and touch me when I'm drunk, but the truth is, I did like his touch because it was sweet and gentle. (NO SEX) Anybody have similar experiences to share?
RedHead33 Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 Is it normal to feel OKAY after making out with a trustworthy male friend? We were both drunk and he was completely gentle, treating me like a real gf. We don't have ANY feelings for each other, we treat each other with great respect and support, and it didn't feel awkward the next day either. We just sort of didn't talk about what happened AT ALL, and just let our usual conversations flow. I kind of feel like a SLUT to let him kiss me and touch me when I'm drunk, but the truth is, I did like his touch because it was sweet and gentle. (NO SEX) Anybody have similar experiences to share? You say you don't have feelings but you liked it. we do and say things when drunk that we want when sober. If you didn't have any feelings towards your friend and vice versa it wouldn't happen. Talk to you friend about it, it's always gonna be there.
Author allenpo123 Posted December 29, 2012 Author Posted December 29, 2012 You say you don't have feelings but you liked it. we do and say things when drunk that we want when sober. If you didn't have any feelings towards your friend and vice versa it wouldn't happen. Talk to you friend about it, it's always gonna be there. Yes, I think your point makes good sense. But I'm not sure if I should bring it up first, we're good friends, but I can't say that we're CLOSE friends. You know how you're in the same group of friends but you're just not particularly close individually? So I don't feel like there were any feelings in between. I don't think he has feelings like that for me either, cuz ever since I known him, he's been in some serious relationships and was very secrecy about it. See that's how "un-close" friends we are? Haha. I feel like I should wait for him to bring it up, if he doesn't want to bring it up, maybe I'll just let it slide? I'm really not proud of being this "EASY" making out with a friend just because he's nice and I'm drunk, I would rather keep it as a secret forever. I assume he won't be up and telling people about this either? What are your thoughts?
RedHead33 Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 Just casually ask him what was all that about? That way you are not saying what you think and how you feel and his answer should tell you all.
Author allenpo123 Posted January 2, 2013 Author Posted January 2, 2013 Thanks RedHead33. He has my coat with him and I need to see him again to get my coat back. The hotel we stayed at was like a 5-min away from my place, so he could have just left my coat at the reception so I could pick it up later that day. Maybe he was trying to be a gentleman. I could just talk it out when him when I go get my coat from him. At least we need to have a straight story...? Or maybe it'll be easier to just pretend it didn't happen? I have another question.. since he payed for the hotel (it was quite expensive), should I pay him back or at least treat him for a meal? He did ask me to stay with him, but if he didn't escorted me back home, he wouldn't have to check into the hotel. So, I feel like I should make some gesture...?
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