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So I started dating a guy back in August and I was not ready so we were dating on and off. We made our official date about a month ago. He broke up with me for something minor saying this relationship was unnecessary stress and that he feels I don't care for him. A day later, I saw an ex who was in town and we hooked up. I understand that we have broken up but I cannot help feeling guilty. What constitutes as cheating in my situation? Should I feel guilty and awful inside? Please advise. :confused:

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No, you were broken up.

 

the guilt you feel is your heart's way of telling you "Too soon."

 

I know what you mean though...after my exwife and I divorced, I waited 2 years, then tentatively went on a couple of dates I found on PlentyOfFish. I felt SOOO guilty.

 

I went home and thought about it...and realized that if I still feel like I'm cheating on my ex, then I wasn't ready to date anyone. Give yourself another few months.

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Don't feel guilty, you two were split

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No need to feel guilty, you were broken up. Maybe give it a little while before seeing anyone else, to give your heart a break.

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Maybe you feel guilty about leading this guy on knowing you weren't ready for a relationship. The hook up is just the cherry.

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I did not lead him on. I truly loved him.

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