peacelight Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 The guy I'm interested in goes to same gym where I go. Sometimes he comes and talks with me for a long time but other times he just avoids me Not really sure if he is interested in me . He would tell me things like his ex cheated on him and they have a 6 year old daughter together, he would ask me everytime if he is going to see me next day at the gym. His grandma lives in same building where I live and he comes to visit her a lot, I found out about it when he told me he saw me walking by the building ( which is obviuos cuz I live there ) I just dont understand why he sometimes acts like he is avoiding me, is it some kind of insecurity issue or just I'm interpreting his kindness as him liking me:)
Fondue Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 Or maybe he wants to see if YOU approach him this time for the conversation . You know, gauge interest level. 1
CptSaveAho Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 The guy I'm interested in goes to same gym where I go. Sometimes he comes and talks with me for a long time but other times he just avoids me Not really sure if he is interested in me . He would tell me things like his ex cheated on him and they have a 6 year old daughter together, he would ask me everytime if he is going to see me next day at the gym. His grandma lives in same building where I live and he comes to visit her a lot, I found out about it when he told me he saw me walking by the building ( which is obviuos cuz I live there ) I just dont understand why he sometimes acts like he is avoiding me, is it some kind of insecurity issue or just I'm interpreting his kindness as him liking me:) He's not over his ex cheating on him... just looking for someone friendly to talk to and listen... he's probably confused too... dont over analyze it to he likes you... 1
Author peacelight Posted December 29, 2012 Author Posted December 29, 2012 I wish I had that courage to approach guys I'm a good looking girl but when it comes to approaching guys I get very shy and very afraid of rejection hehe
El Brujo Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 Or maybe he wants to see if YOU approach him this time for the conversation . You know, gauge interest level. ^^What Fondue said.^^
Casablanca Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 I wish I had that courage to approach guys I'm a good looking girl but when it comes to approaching guys I get very shy and very afraid of rejection hehe No guy worth your time will be offended or up set if a cute girl approaches them 1
Monty4321 Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 Agree. He probably wants to see if u will engage him and show interest. This is the first thing that comes to mind. I know u r shy - but sometimes the other person feels a bit of personal pressure to engage as well. But u should feel comfortable enough by now to engage him a bit. Could also be theres someone else there he likes so he dodges u during those times. Agree: hes probably not over other woman and is probably frustrated. 2
Author peacelight Posted December 29, 2012 Author Posted December 29, 2012 Can you guys give me some idea, like what to say I know it's stupid to ask such a thing. When I go to gym I go there to workout, I'm very dedicated to this workingout thingy, guys appoach and talk to me all the time but it takes soo much time out of my gym time and it's not very cool, but I really would like to know if this guy is intrerested in me. Well, I guess I would never find out unless I do the approaching, regardless if I faint or my knees will shake like crazy:) He is already over his ex it's been almost 5 years and he told me they never talk
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