Mystery2Me Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 I do hope everyone has had the best holiday possible with family, friends and true loved ones. While driving to my parent's on Christmas Eve, my STBXH and I arrive at the same 4-way intersection?!?! My first thought is...Dear God, why is this happening to me after 6 months of NC! The jackass just stares and waves at me...Lord have mercy on my soul. I did NOT wave back and gave him a go to hell look and proceeded down the interstate with him behind me in his car. I take my exist and he continues on down the road. I was expecting a flood of emotions, but nothing! So was thankful to learn that at least I have emotionally detached, which in this insane business is progress. While it saddens me that after 15 yrs of marriage, the person he is before me now is NOTHING, I am thankful and joyful of the progress I've made. The divorce is moving forward and the power has shifted in my favor, as it is me who has served his sorry ass with papers. So onto New Years 2013 for me, I have booked a swanky boutique hotel for me and my sweet Cinnabelle (mini Daschund) with 7 course French meal! We deserve it as he abandoned us 8 months ago without warning, and had to just buck-up and get on with it. Happy New Year to us all and dream big...we so deserve it!! 1
revitup Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 (edited) Now that's how you do it folks!Be good to yourselves. I am proud of you and Cinnabelle.My dog (Littleman) is with me all of the time.STBXWW actually wanted to take him too! It's very strange how the Wayward ones look and behave as though nothing is wrong.Also strange, is how that makes me a little bit angry.Of all of the awful things the STBX did to me,it's that attitude of arrogance that seems to get me peeved. Ring in the "NEW" year in style! May 2013 be the best year ever for all of us! REVITUP Edited December 29, 2012 by revitup spelling
Author Mystery2Me Posted December 29, 2012 Author Posted December 29, 2012 Many thanks, Revitup! You nailed it about the wayward ones strange and arrogant behavior towards us BSs. I am delighted for you and Littleman, the unconditional love and acceptance they provide is such a treasured gift. Happy New Year to you!!!! 1
revitup Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 Mystery2Me, It is crazy what really makes me angry now about the STBXWW.It should be the many men,C/L and nudie pics.It's not really any of those though.It usually is simply that she sends a text or something.A text like "r u gonna b round ltr ?".This also annoys my DD14 when her mom does it. I know it seems silly but I can't stand to see her 41yr old self act like a teenager in her texts to me!!!I have a Droid and let it spell out all my words by voice to text just because it isn't in me to abbreviate everything.As a matter of fact ,I think it makes me feel angry when she just calls and I see the number. It makes me angry just seeing her handwriting on papers I come across around the house! OK that was my venting for 2012! Let's all have a great and Happy New Year!!
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