casualme Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 (edited) How do you think how bad idea is it to go on a first date on new years celebration? Havent met this girl before, but we've been chatting on skype sometimes and its pretty clear that we like each other. Im just afraid of the worst case scenario. She lives far away in a small city where is nothing to do and, just in case, I wont be able to get out of there until bus starts going somewhere at January 1st evening, its cold winter outside, she lives with her mom and brother and I am a typical big city computer guy. Lacking dating experience and self-confidence, shy and quiet around people I dont know etc. At least im fit and, from what i know, good looking aswell. Currently she is taking some medicine and cant mix it with alcohol, so can't expect any help from that poision. Overall, im just in big doubt and maybe you can give some tips thank you Edited December 28, 2012 by casualme
Angel Heart Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 Perhaps make a list of the pros and cons of your situation; it will help you narrow down your decision making process. I wouldn't want to go on a first date on New Years' Eve b/c of the pressure, uncertainty, and the difficulties in her returning home. Consider seeing one another prior to or after 2013 for that first meeting. A meet and greet is the best b/c you can gauge fairly quickly whether chemistry exists; no long date pressure. I hope you have a wonderful 2013!
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