Javabear Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 The more I think about my breakup the less sense it makes. Originally I thought that he left me for someone else. But then I thought that it more likely had to do with him being scared of commitment because he had never had another girlfriend before and after three years with me things got pretty serious. I get that. But this other girl still lingered in my mind. I know he liked her because he told me so. But you know what? Turns out she's not all that into him and doesn't really want to date him. I guess his fantasy about her was all wrong. Still, he broke up with me. Kind of. I mean, when he told me about her he said he didn't want to break up with me but after trying for 10 days to get him to work things out I had to be the one to say it was over because of the simple fact that he liked someone else. We don't really talk anymore except that he texted me to wish me good luck on an exam last week and he wished me happy birthday yesterday. His mom also wrote me a happy birthday email. This other girl will never feel about him the way that I did. In fact, I'm sure no one else will ever love him as much as I did... and I can't help but wonder if he's slowly starting to figure that out. I think this breakup needed to happen because we're young and need time to grow up separately, but at the same time it seems like it shouldn't have happened at all because the girl he was interested in doesn't have romantic feelings for him and after three months I haven't been interested in anyone else and am still confused about what's really going on. I wish there was a way to look into the future and see how this all plays out. And I wish my heart would stop loving him or he would come back because even though I've made a life for myself without him, there are times I still feel like I'm living in limbo.
Inviv_girl Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 Well, knowing the girl he likes turned out doesnt feel the same way as he did and you're still hang in there waiting for...what? he told you he likes someone else while ur in a relationship with him is not a good sign. at the end your relationship must come to an end, I would say just end it for good! do not even think about the girl he likes doesnt feel the same way as he did or not! he decide to like another girl while he is with you, and wanted out of the relationship with you so granted his wish and leave! do not hang around for something like this and feed his ego boost! if the girl he likes doesnt like him back then its his problem
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