Author H1122 Posted January 1, 2013 Author Posted January 1, 2013 Commando. I have let him know absoutly everything. If you read above you would know this. Thanks for your opinion tho...And just for the record i'm no stay at home mom who dosent contribute. The rolls are actually reversed i've worked 2-3 jobs for 5 years so he could stay home and take care of kids and work on the house. Rhapsodyinblue: thank you for your post. I really appreciate it. I think I will suggest councelling to my BF and see if he would be willing. I have been with this man almost 8 years now and dont want to throw that away. ( i know i should have thought that 3 years ago before all this happened)
Toddbt12y1 Posted January 1, 2013 Posted January 1, 2013 Sounds like you both love each other. Sorry for the strong views of some on this forum - takes it from a discussion to a rant, and not very enjoyable for any of us. Sounds like you are handling it just fine. I don't like that he is wanting to make you cry. I had an ex like that and he seriously enjoyed me being very very upset, and he contrived the situations. Maybe tell him the whole truth about the situation. He doesn't stand in judgment of you. He is your partner. And either he is still wanting to be your partner or not. These are not harsh views. But the truth. Sorry not all on here can baby cheaters and kiss their butts. That's real.
Author H1122 Posted January 1, 2013 Author Posted January 1, 2013 Coffeebean201: thank you also. Some of the opinions are a bit harsh but its okay. Everyone is intitled to it. I appreciate the positive and negative. Overall i think just being able to vent and talk helps.
Toddbt12y1 Posted January 1, 2013 Posted January 1, 2013 Coffeebean201: thank you also. Some of the opinions are a bit harsh but its okay. Everyone is intitled to it. I appreciate the positive and negative. Overall i think just being able to vent and talk helps. Look. I appreciate how you accept opinions of others. As harsh as I maybe...I would hate for two people to split. I seriously hope you two can work it out...just expect coldness for a while from him..
Author H1122 Posted January 1, 2013 Author Posted January 1, 2013 Thanks todd.. You actually probably represent my BF's feelings ..and as much as anyone i know i messed up and really hope things work out for us. This all happened 3 years ago for me but its still fresh for him because he just found out a couple months ago when i came clean to stop being blackmailed by my ex. Sometimes I think i should have just kept my mouth shut. But In reality i should have told him a long time ago.
Toddbt12y1 Posted January 1, 2013 Posted January 1, 2013 Being truthful is what helps make a strong relationship 1
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