Mme. Chaucer Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 Greznog: "Well, maybe if women were a little more interesting. There's really no difference between an 11 year old girl and a 20 year old woman when it comes to trying to talk politics or economics, it's either fueled by complete ignorance and wishful thinking or they're simply parroting their dad/boyfriend/teacher/male coworker". Well, you're right about one thing. I can't discuss economics very impressively. A close relative of mine was a professor of economics at UC Berkeley and a ground breaking author on the subject, but I suppose I'd just be "parroting" him if I spoke about any of the things I learned from my conversations with him over the years. By the way, how do "males" learn about economics, besides from their mentors / teachers? Are they just born with this knowledge in place as part of their chromosomal makeup, according to you? I'd bet a great deal of money that I'm much smarter than you are, even with my deficit in economic knowledge.
Lonely Ronin Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 By the way, how do "males" learn about economics, besides from their mentors / teachers? Are they just born with this knowledge in place as part of their chromosomal makeup, according to you? . Didn't you know we are born superior to women in every way possible... (just to be clear I'm being a smart ass, no hate male please)
Mme. Chaucer Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 (just to be clear I'm being a smart ass, no hate male please) :laugh: Hahaha! Was that intentional? 1
Lonely Ronin Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 :laugh: Hahaha! Was that intentional? I'll let you figure that one out. 2
phineas Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 At one point I needed to purge my female friends. They all wound up turning into major attention whores that tried leading me on & once they thought they had me tried using me, turned me into a boyfriend without benefits, ect. I recognized however I allowed it to get to that point. I'm genuinely a nice guy with many skills & I like to help my friends out when I can. Consequently i've lost a lot of friends over the yrs because they never really returned the favor. I unfortunatly kept women friends around longer than I should have because they had much nicer asses & smelled better. I'm now looking to create a new female social circle because women my age are much better at networking, socializing, & always know where the party is. 1
Shaun-Dro Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 Few months ago i literally flushed away all the girls i used the hang around much with, Me, the buddies and the gym is all i need, until i find a girl who is strongly attracted to me and the opposite. I have seen the light, i personality find it useless to have female friends since i have seen most don´t really want to be true friends with males. Like this i can´t be F-Zoned, taken advantage of and waste time on uninterested women. This is the way to go!. Of course women don´t like it, because if all men where like that they would have no friends to leech. Actually having female friends can benefit you if you're smart about it. There is a difference between having a platonic female friend you have no interest in, and one that you want to boink. That expains your failure with them. Learn to separate them. 1
charlietheginger Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 Few months ago i literally flushed away all the girls i used the hang around much with, Me, the buddies and the gym is all i need, until i find a girl who is strongly attracted to me and the opposite. I have seen the light, i personality find it useless to have female friends since i have seen most don´t really want to be true friends with males. Like this i can´t be F-Zoned, taken advantage of and waste time on uninterested women. This is the way to go!. Of course women don´t like it, because if all men where like that they would have no friends to leech. I was exactly where you were 14months ago I decided to cancel my cable give up bars and Spend my evenings in the gym... I lost 40lbs my prepubescent round face Transformed into a sculpted mans face. I through out all junkfood i only eat Freshmeats fish eggs fruits veggies brownrice Water and orange juice. My face healed its acne scars my eyes Took on a brighter color. Now looking revitalized and healthy Ive made new friends and very mature Attractive women have taken interest.... To prove im not kidding her is What i looked like 2 yrs ago And now after 14months of Living a healthy lifestyle This was my eat junkfood play on internet face Image - TinyPic - Free Image Hosting, Photo Sharing & Video Hosting This is my eat healthy new face Image - TinyPic - Free Image Hosting, Photo Sharing & Video Hosting
joystickd Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 For a long time I had a no female friends unless they are lesbian rule for myself up until recently. Anyone can look at my posts on here and see that. I had lost my virginity to a female "friend" that was married. She played mind games, told lies about me, and bad mouthed me to women I tried to talk to. It made me absolutely be against female friends and affected me in other ways in regards to dealing with women. Then I worked as a nurse and over time it made me relax my stance against male/heterosexual female friendships. If you establish boundaries then its cool. If you both understand that its just friendship then its a great thing. Most look and see the orbiters and refuse because they think they will be an orbiter. The thing is you have to understand there is a difference between being a real friend and being "friend" meaning that you are just hanging around just until you see vulnerability and capitalize in the hopes of sex or her being with you.
charlietheginger Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 Lol oh sorry old pic new face is avatar lol
Author Necromancer Posted December 29, 2012 Author Posted December 29, 2012 An 18 year old kid who has yet to go on his first date!! You ain't fooling me, nice shaming. You are just bitter, since your market value is close to zero after you hit 40´s. Actually it's going down now!. You are -2.
Anela Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 You ain't fooling me, nice shaming. You are just bitter, since your market value is close to zero after you hit 40´s. Actually it's going down now!. You are -2. She's happily married. Seems like her market value is just fine. 2
joystickd Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 You ain't fooling me, nice shaming. You are just bitter, since your market value is close to zero after you hit 40´s. Actually it's going down now!. You are -2. Lol. There are some really hot women in their forties. They will give a twentysomething a good run for their money. 1
TaraMaiden Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 I'm 55 - I was propositioned on Christmas day, at work, by a young fellah in his 30's.. and no, before you say it, he was not drunk. I told him I was probably old enough to be his mother, and he said: "Older women are hot! My ex was 12 years older than me - I think older women rock!" There's a spark of life in this old gal yet, boys!! 2
JuneJulySeptember Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 You ain't fooling me, nice shaming. You are just bitter, since your market value is close to zero after you hit 40´s. Actually it's going down now!. You are -2. Dude. You are way too bitter for your age. When I was your age, I still had illusions that women would return my crushes and that they'd fall so in love with me just because I was the coolest. Of course, none of that happened, but you are too young to say it won't happen to you. Come back in 5 years if it hasn't and then you can start bitching.
Author Necromancer Posted December 29, 2012 Author Posted December 29, 2012 Dude. You are way too bitter for your age. When I was your age, I still had illusions that women would return my crushes and that they'd fall so in love with me just because I was the coolest. Of course, none of that happened, but you are too young to say it won't happen to you. Come back in 5 years if it hasn't and then you can start bitching. I am as jaded as a two times divorced 50 year old.
JuneJulySeptember Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 I am as jaded as a two times divorced 50 year old. In a way believe it or not, its good because you wont fall into the traps so many young guys here do. But I do think you have to give it a few years still. Some guys really blossom and turn into ladies men between 18 and 23. I'm way older than that.
TaraMaiden Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 I am as jaded as a two times divorced 50 year old. I'm a 2-times divorced 50 year old - on her 3rd hbby! Jaded is not a word I'd use to describe me! basically, you're a cynical fuddy-duddy with warped ideas and a sour outlook! Oh this is all on you fella.... don't blame us - you're your own worst enemy!
Lonely Ronin Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 Lol. There are some really hot women in their forties. They will give a twentysomething a good run for their money. He would never admit that, as it would shatter his twisted view of the world. It's like when the church crucified people for sawing the earth wasn't the center of the universe, or the earth was round. Anything that questions his view is incapable of being correct, his little mind can't even compute it.
CptSaveAho Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 (edited) What I dont understand is .... Why are guys in this thread trying to project emotions of the Original Poster... women do this crap...." oh you're jaded.... youre bitter.... you're immature...." He's a kid self talking and from my perspective, saying and doing the right things growing up to be a man. He's figuring things out on his own Then we get men that are married (and settled) and women that are divorced twice + and on their third marriages telling him he's wrong or those that can't date anymore because no one wants them.... LAUGH MY ASS OFF Sucks to be married and reading the dating forum and taunting a kid thats trying to figure things out... Edited December 29, 2012 by CptSaveAho 3
TheBigQuestion Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 What I dont understand is .... Why are guys in this thread trying to project emotions of the Original Poster... women do this crap...." oh you're jaded.... youre bitter.... you're immature...." He's a kid self talking and from my perspective, saying and doing the right things growing up to be a man. He's figuring things out on his own Then we get men that are married (and settled) and women that are divorced twice + and on their third marriages telling him he's wrong or those that can't date anymore because no one wants them.... LAUGH MY ASS OFF Sucks to be married and reading the dating forum and taunting a kid thats trying to figure things out... Regardless of anything else said so far, I think it's absolutely hilarious that anyone with multiple failed marriages would have the nerve to think that anything they have to say on how to make a romantic relationship succeed should be taken seriously. Take the advice, commentary, and criticism of those who have made it work for decades instead.
Pyro Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 What I dont understand is .... Why are guys in this thread trying to project emotions of the Original Poster... women do this crap...." oh you're jaded.... youre bitter.... you're immature...." If he were to say that 'some women' or 'the women that I have dealt with act this way' then he would be taken seriously. The world has 7 billion people and half of them are women, so unless he knows 3.5 billion of the people he can't be taken seriously. I think that it is safe to speak for a majority of the people who have replied to this thread. I am as jaded as a two times divorced 50 year old. You are 18 and feel this way? You have some learning to do and some growing up to do.
Taramere Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 (edited) A lot of people are angry that the things mom and pop told them don't work in real life. You only need to reference Brad Pitt's quote in Fight Club for that one. The Tyler Durden quote you're referencing is far from being a diatribe against "work hard and play nice" advice not working out. It's a commentary on the mindless greed and entitlement complex people develop as a result of watching too much tv and too many commercials. It seems to me that there's a range of options available for the person who, having let the media fill their head with nonsense, finally realises that they're never going to be the hero/heroine in a movie fairytale. 1. They can grow up as calmly and quietly as possible, try to increase their network of stable and reasonable friends and try to look on the bright side a bit more. 2. They can have a narcissistic meltdown, cry a lot and contemplate suicide, and then either get counselling and revert to number one (grow up without too much public fuss and drama) or proceed to stage 3 3. They can grow the f*ck up. No calm, undramatic half measures here. Growing the f*ck up is the manly way to do it. It's the strong woman way to do it too. Taking the red pill. Eliminating the opposite sex from their lives as much as humanly possible. Except for sex, of course. Reading Rudyard Kipling. Growing up with as much noise, drama and a lot of tough love (directed towards both the self and others) as possible. People who need to GTFU will congregate on pink message boards of love, and discuss at length the importance of growing the f*ck up, embracing bitterness and doing it as f*cking painfully and unpleasantly as f*cking possible. F*ck yeah! 4. They can set up a fight club, kick the crap out of eachother and blow up buildings. Otherwise known as joining the armed services or a revolutionary terrorist organisation. Edited December 29, 2012 by Taramere 1
KungFuJoe Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 That's why I stopped listening to those people because they simply have no clue. The advice some adults give to young people these days is unbelievable. I only care about people who get results. That's why I stopped listening to failures and beta male schlubs and started listening to those who actually get out there and make something happen. Do I count? With the same woman for 13 years, married for 10. Amazing relationship...we are best friends and sex, even after three kids and all these years, is better than ever. I would say I qualify as someone who "made it happen". I think you and necromancer (and a few others) have NO freakin clue about women or relationships. But the problem is that you think you have all answers already. What have you done? What life experiences do YOU have that qualify you to make such blanket statements and judgements? But you're not that bad. At least you have some guts and resolve. There might be hope for you yet. Necromancers is a whole different level of pathetic. He openly claims to want help and starts numerous threads asking why this and why that....and when people answer him...he just shrugs off the answers he doesn't want to hear and clings to the few misguided ones that he does happen to agree with. Necromancer doesn't want help. He just wants someone to agree with him and join in on his pity party.
Mrlonelyone Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 More or less what the last two said. Though certainly in the black and white, Alpha and Beta, binary world the OP and those like him live in .... I'd probably be classes as a sissy gay beta male. Never mind I'd had more sex with grown women by their age than they have and have a good idea of what really attracts a woman to a man. That very binary view of the world is part of the problem the OP and those who think like him have. In such a view they cannot see the great difference between the friend zone and being treated like a real friend (let alone being a womans FWB). One is either the womans full and exclusive boyfriend right off the bat with no hesitation OR one is a total stranger to a woman. In their world that makes perfect sense. In their world friendship with a woman just does not exist. 1
edgygirl Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 Regardless of anything else said so far, I think it's absolutely hilarious that anyone with multiple failed marriages would have the nerve to think that anything they have to say on how to make a romantic relationship succeed should be taken seriously. Take the advice, commentary, and criticism of those who have made it work for decades instead. I thought the idea is that people learn from their failures in life? I'm for one, am very much interested in what anyone with more experience than me has to say. That's what smart people do. Only those who are not that bright think they have all the answers. Hint? 2
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