Lord Gulliver Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 Any advice would be appreciated. I met a girl 3 months ago and things developed fairly quick. We became couple after a month and now she is back in her motherland for 3 months. In other words we have been apart for one month. To give you a bried history on my previous relationship I have been cheated once before 6 years ago and ever since then i did not get into any relationship. I was afraid of about being hurt again. So now i have met this girl and we are on the verge of breaking up. She has a tendency of not responding to text or just leave without saying a single word when we are texting each other. We had a frw arguements before and i started to question if i have been clingy or needy. I felt insecure when she just leave like. So last night we had a massive arguement as she once again left without saying anything while we are in the midst of a conversation. After i have calm down i apologise to her as i felt i shouldnt have let my previous relationship affect us. She said she wants to calm fown and will talk to me when shes ready. Being afraid of the uncertainty i told her to spare me a few minutes just to sort things out and we spoke on the phone. I wanted to patch things up with her for i know its not easy for me to meet some one with her but somehow she said she is indecisive. She said she need to calm down and will let me know what she thinks in 2 days time. I am having abit of a mixed feeling for i felt relieved but at the same time i think its such a waste that the relationship just ended like that. I wonder if i have done anything wrong in this case.
Axee Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 Lord Gulliver, here is what the things are about texting. 1.If a guy/girl really thinks you are important and would risk losing you if they dont respond back, THEY WILL RESPOND BACK. 2. In case you havent set boundaries about texting, then ppl easily take you for granted. 3.And yes, PLEESE dont text more than 4 to 5 messages in a day no matter how good the response.If more then talk.1 phone call per day is equivalent to a 100 texts . In your case, any relationship with high drama rarely lasts, you are a standby option for her.
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