GERSON Posted August 16, 2004 Posted August 16, 2004 MY GIRLFREIND AND I HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR ALMOST 5 YEARS IM 22 SHES 21 SHES BEEN THE ONLY ONE IVE HAD SEX WITH AND IVE BEEN THE ONLY ONE FOR HER TOO! WE HAVE GONE THROUGH A LOT AND COME OUT ON TOP! IM ALMOST BUT CERTAIN SHE WONT CHEAT ON ME, NOW ANYWAY! HERES THE PROB, SHE WANTS TO HAVE SEX EVRYDAY!!!!!SOMETIMES TWICE A DAY! I MOVED INTO MY APARTMENT A YEAR AGO AND SINCE THEN WOWWWW SHE COMES OVER EVRYDAY BEFORE I GO TO WORK AND WHEN I COME BACK FROM SCHOOL! MY SEX DRIVE IS GOOD BUT I JUST HAVE THINGS TO DO , GO PLAY SOCCER, GO TO THE GYM HANG OUT WITH BUDDYS GO TO CLUBS GET DRUNK ETC ETC! NOT TO MENTION IN SIZE I AINT NO ''DIRK DIGGLER'' IM ABOUT AVG ! SHE SAID TO ME SHE WAS GONA BUY A VIBRATOR I FELT USELESS REALLY! THEN I ASKED WHY SHE SAID CAUSE SHE NEEDED IT!???? IF WE GET MARRIED WILL MY SIZE BE A FACTOR IN OUR SEX LIFE WICH AT THE MOMENT SEEMS TO BE UN-FULLFILLING FOR MY FUTURE WIFE? IS SHE SAPABLE OF CHEATING ON ME AFTER ALL WE BEEN THROUGH?
tree Posted August 16, 2004 Posted August 16, 2004 I don't think this has anything to do with your size. (As we've seen in COUNTLESS threads here, it's not how big it is, it's how you use it. Look around to comfort yourself) Most vibrators are pretty small. Not all of them, we've all seen pictures of the Rampant Rabbit....but I have one, and it's not for size, it's simply to achieve orgasm. *shrugs* Sounds to me like she may have some sort of sex addiction...she's demanding it quite a lot, which I don't think it the norm. I'm sure many girls would be happy with more sex, but it sounds like she's getting a hell of a lot and still demanding more, AND a vibrator...it's a bit much, don't you think? Maybe hinting that something is wrong. Either that or she is not achieving orgasm through intercourse, and is becoming frustrated, naturally enough. I hate to pry, but do you give her oral sex or stimulate her with your fingers? They can both produce a brilliant orgasm, and have nothing to do with how big your penis is. Please don't worry about that, by the way.
Papillon Posted August 16, 2004 Posted August 16, 2004 Ok..first things first. Typing with CAPS Lock on is CONSIDERED SHOUTING AND IS RUDE! Thank you. Now, your GF has a good sex drive. What. Exactly. Is. The. Problem? Too many men focus on penetration. I've never understood this. A woman's body is so full of beautiful, erogenous zones, its seems a crime to just focus on that one act alone. I can understand why you might feel a little bit alarmed, I think what she suggested was not the most tactful thing to do, and if you're sensitive to that sort of thing it would hurt anyone's feelings. Well, perhaps your GF loves that "full" feeling, and cannot orgasm without it. Perhaps she wants it to orgasm when you're unavailable. Maybe she likes nazi lesbian eskimo's? Who knows? She's a woman, with all the attendant mysteries. I think the two of you need to communicate more. In any event, think of it this way - even if she thinks the vibrator is a better alternative (which it DEFINITELY isn't), the vibrator is not a good kisser, cannot give a backrub, does not run you a hot bubblebath, or whisper sweet nothings in your ear (unless you think BZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ is sexy). Don't worry. I would suggest that you perhaps look at more diverse ways of bringing her to orgasm. Her body is amazing (you lucky guy), so go with the flow and relax. Size is only going to be important if YOU get that idea in your head.
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