sadbunnyy Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 I deactivated my facebook because I cant face my friends...I feel so stupid for putting all that relationship stuff on there when me and my ex were dating... I feel really stupid. Now there's nothing left to show. I told myself I wouldn't look at my exes page either but I can't help it...I don't have him as a friend because I deleted him but I can see certain things he posts...ever since he started emailing me again I've been looking at his page. I noticed he posted some things today...but why couldn't reply back to my email... I feel so hopeless...
Toddbt12y1 Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 I deactivated my facebook because I cant face my friends...I feel so stupid for putting all that relationship stuff on there when me and my ex were dating... I feel really stupid. Now there's nothing left to show. I told myself I wouldn't look at my exes page either but I can't help it...I don't have him as a friend because I deleted him but I can see certain things he posts...ever since he started emailing me again I've been looking at his page. I noticed he posted some things today...but why couldn't reply back to my email... I feel so hopeless... It's good you closed the account you won't have temptations. You shouldn't be ashamed on how you feel. Don't be hopeless over him...he is playing you. Forget him and move on and find true happiness. You deserve it. 1
Author sadbunnyy Posted December 28, 2012 Author Posted December 28, 2012 Thanks! I know I have to. He doesn't want me back...it is what it is i guess... I don't want to be there for him anymore...he was never there for me...
nsteen87 Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 I deleted my instagram and it was the best thing I've ever done. Whatever it takes to help you heal, you must do it ASAP. You need to forcefully remove all temptations that "re-open" your wounds and cause hurt and anxiety. If that means deactivating your FB...do it!!! 2
Author sadbunnyy Posted December 28, 2012 Author Posted December 28, 2012 I blocked him then I deleted my fb page lol...im not checking my email account that he sends to either. good thing its not my main account i got 2 more emails haha...my new years resolution is to heal from this heartbreak and to move on. I want to stick to no contact until I'm fully healed, even if it takes a year! I'm gonna hit the gym and get a new wardrobe and look my best. When I reappear, maybe i'll have the chance to show my ex what he lost!
Inviv_girl Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 I know how you feel, my ex and I have a lot of facebook pictures together and lots of good memory in it, romantic writing etc etc etc!!!!!!!!!!! I dont have him on my facebook anymore now the relationship is over and yes I still creep on his facebook sometimes although I cant see anything cuz he set his profile private. Anyway, it hurt really bad, I cry each and everytime and doing NC now which is extremely hard! Lots of questions and wondering inside myhead, while Im crying over him is he over there crying over me too or happily holding someone else?? I dont know the answer.... Cry is all I can do! no matter what I do I cant get him out of my head! I think Im crazy..help!
KatZee Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 Clean up the facebook. Unsubscribe to your ex, block him and delete him from your list. Take down all the pics, delete the statuses. Believe me, I did ALL of these things when we broke up. The day he ended it I did a clean sweep and got rid of EVERYTHING. I unsubscribed to all mutual friends, so now I don't have to see any updates or statuses or pictures or anything. I'm a pretty strong person regardless though so I don't seek out any of those people's pages at all. If you're tempted to snoop just stay off it. 1
Missing Him Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 I blocked and deleted my ex from Facebook after we broke up, but there are still ways that I can snoop him and I still do sometimes. It's a bad habit and I need to stop because I know that someday I could and will stumble on something that would really hurt. The best way to heal, I'm finding, is to put him completely out of sight. Knowing what he's doing is too hard, and I don't even think that I like the idea of him knowing what or how I'm doing. It sucks to have to completely remove such a big part of your life but it really is the only way to fully heal.
Just smile Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 I was deleted off my ex sister in law page today because I was posting comments eluding to the breakup and my resolution to begin my new year positive, boom I was gone, as I thought about it, I realized I needed to get off Facebook, mainly because some of his family members were on my page and my temptation to put it all out there. I feel ashamed, but it was honesty l m off fb Indefintely 1
BehindBlueEyes Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 Yepp when FB and the sort gets like that for you, it is time to leave it and make yourself stay away at all cost. It's not real world, just BS really. 2
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