skydragon Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 So long story short: My last relationship ended last year and my ex hid a guy from me. There was no physical relationship but there sure as hell had some emotional stuff going on. That guy was engaged. Now: Thanks to her I have this insecurity that my current girlfriend might/will do the same. I am having trouble with her talking to other guys. I feel as if every guy wants her. But then again...that actually happens. So many guys want to get into her pants. So she is currently seeing this guy that she has a past with who happens to be in the army. She knows a relationship is not possible because of that and just wants to see him before he leaves. I freak out every time there's some other guy. She knows about this insecurity and I try to control it but enough is enough already. I want to be done with it... It also doesnt help that she admitted to kissing another guy while she was in a vulnerable state during our relationship and bad timing and stress and she completely regrets it and was ridiculously sorry. I forgave and trying to repair that also.
todreaminblue Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 So long story short: My last relationship ended last year and my ex hid a guy from me. There was no physical relationship but there sure as hell had some emotional stuff going on. That guy was engaged. Now: Thanks to her I have this insecurity that my current girlfriend might/will do the same. I am having trouble with her talking to other guys. I feel as if every guy wants her. But then again...that actually happens. So many guys want to get into her pants. So she is currently seeing this guy that she has a past with who happens to be in the army. She knows a relationship is not possible because of that and just wants to see him before he leaves. I freak out every time there's some other guy. She knows about this insecurity and I try to control it but enough is enough already. I want to be done with it... It also doesnt help that she admitted to kissing another guy while she was in a vulnerable state during our relationship and bad timing and stress and she completely regrets it and was ridiculously sorry. I forgave and trying to repair that also. you know the last relationship i was in i kissed a guy in hospital, i was in a vulnerable state i was advised not to tell by all my friends and family, i did tell because it was right to be truthful, and i also told the hospital officials and they moved the guy away from me....if a girl tells you negative things you can be sure that you will always know and not be fooled or played for a fool, its when they dont tell, you should worry... i never cheated on my partner other than that......he actually cheated on me .......and lied and hid .......i still dont play that way...nor would i...it isnt a way to live....be open and honest with your fears and insecurities towards your gf....you have to trust she will do the right thing by you or the relationship is on the back foot its inevitable in any ltr that there will be tests of others who will come in between it male and female.......you have to have faith you are both in it for the long haul and keep it open and honest BOTH WAYS not one way, but both of you.......so simple....deb
Author skydragon Posted December 28, 2012 Author Posted December 28, 2012 She does know about that insecurity. I want to get over it and I don't want it to push her away but its hard not to act upon it. I try to keep it to myself and I do tell her how I feel. But I don't want her to get fed up with it. It worries me that this might ruin my relationship thanks to my ex. I literatly shake hearing about her with a another guy regardless of who it is
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