Pinky777 Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 I think most exes still care, emotions don't just shut off like a faucet. If you once cared about someone, I think you always will on some level even if you no longer want to be in a committed relationship with that person. It's hard to see that when they do horrible things like cheat on you, lie, leave without any explanation but emotions are complicated and it's not as simple as they just don't care at all anymore. People are inherently selfish. They just care more about their agenda and what's right for them. I've been both a dumper and dumpee and it's never easy either way. Your exes would have to be sociopaths to not bat an eyelash if they heard you were dead or something.
bonespockirk Posted January 2, 2013 Posted January 2, 2013 honestly i just had an experience with my ex that answered this lingering question you post. after he broke up with me in october, i went no contact, almost three months later he facebooks me ' i know you probably thought you would never hear from me...blahblah...i understand if you dont respond'... we briefly talked back and forth til a few days ago when he was drunk and blew up on me saying horrible mean things about how and why he doesnt care about me or love me.... really if you knew how they think about you, you would understand why they were able to walk away. thats my conclusion from this last and final bit. i no longer care what he thinks or weather he loved me. i realize that when people leave you, they are able to do it becasue they think bad things about you more than good things. they judge you in their heads and make fun of you and think about pet peeves when they see you, stuff that they will never tell you because its really not your fault that you annoy them and that they dont love you.
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