pomme Posted August 16, 2004 Posted August 16, 2004 hey, first post and that so hope it goes well basically, i have a wierd-ish problem. i want to ask out this girl, i'm not nervous, about asking or anything, i'm actually very confident in myself. Problem is, I just never am sure about what to talk about. When I actually hit it off with people, I'm fine, but that only happens with a few people in my life. With everyone else, i can talk to them, but always find i have nothing to say when topics finish, and i dont think this is because i'm uninteresting or not intelligent. For instance in clubs, i see guys chat to girls they just met for ages, and i always wonder what they are talking about, but i have no idea! can anyone help?
pomme Posted August 16, 2004 Posted August 16, 2004 right, id actually like help here? any advice at all! lets just say for instance im on a date, and a topic finishes, and another doesnt start naturally, how do you naturallu move into something else?
Confused1 Posted August 17, 2004 Posted August 17, 2004 It really depends on the situation but I can usually start a conversation with others by asking if they've seen the latest movie, TV show, book, etc. Then through the course of conversation, they'll reveal something about themselves that you can really talk about. If you’re on a date and the topic ends just ask them to tell you something about themselves and just listen! If you could do anything tonight with no strings, what would you do? What’s your dream job? What’s the most embarrassing thing you’ve ever done?
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