StevekAv Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 We dated for about 8 months. We were just starting to talk about the prospects of getting engaged when the relationship took a nose dive. I started working double shifts and got depressed, and she was gone for weeks with her ballet company. With my depression I had zero sex drive, and she thought I was cheating on her. She broke up with me and even though I knew I was making a huge mistake, but with my mind all messed up I couldn't think of anything good to say to her. She ended up seeing a psychologist and I probably should've done the same because I was depressed for 6 months. I hadn't seen her for about five years, but we kept in touch with facebook for for few years, she was still touring with ballet last time I heard. Then for last couple of years I lost all contact with her. On Christmas Eve, some of our mutual friends were having a Christmas party and we both showed up. I didn't even recognize her at first it wasn't until on of her friends said I remember when you two were dating. We sat down and talked a few and one the first thing she noted is that this is they heaviest she's ever been weighing 180 lbs which is a lot for her since she's only 5'1 and weighed 95-100 when I last saw her. Even her voice didn't sound right, I remember trying to convice her to sing as her voice was really clear. I asked if she had any kids; she said no. I tried to talk to with her as long as I could, and then I headed out feeling sad. I remember she was one of the prettiest girl I ever I seen, and now she just let herself go. I thought if she would be married with kids would be the worst case of second chance but I think this is worse because it's like she a completely different person. I remember her getting me out to jog at 6 in the morning. My question is if she and I would've stayed together, and I stick to exercise like I have, is it far fetched to think that she would've took better care or herself or was it inevitable that she let herself go?
shalisha42 Posted December 31, 2012 Posted December 31, 2012 Boy, do you sound like an egomaniac! What do you care what she looks like? I haven't heard you say once that you were still in love with her. And by the way, what makes you think she isn't happy with how she looks? Really, get over yourself. So you think that if she would have stayed with you, she wouldn't have "let herself go?" You've got to be joking. News Flash: We don't cause other people's behavior. We don't control what others do or don't do - your majesty.
Game Posted January 2, 2013 Posted January 2, 2013 LOL wtf kind of post is this? Bomb avoided then, on to the next one? If you are so concerned about how she looks, maybe you should start dating her and wake her up at 6 in the morning to take her jogging and then put her on the jared subway diet. But seriously, 180 for 5'1 is ridiculous from 95-100.. That's like ballet dancer to line backer. Maybe because of ballet and her being a dancer and all she wasn't allowed to eat junk food and so one day she said F*CK IT I'M EATING ALL THE TWINKIES AND HO HOS THAT I WANT! 1
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