LostInTranslation24 Posted December 27, 2012 Posted December 27, 2012 Okay, I mainly need a better understanding of my situation. Really long story short, I met this girl on an online dating site; had a lot in common (music, movies, likes...) and messaged her. We messaged back in forth for a week or so and I finally got her number and called her a day or 2 later. The phone call went really well, 45 minutes long and no awkward silences and I ended the conversation. Now the dilemma. This all happened a couple days before christmas and she left to go visit her family in New York for 2 weeks, since she moved down here for her job. (Now I believe she is more of the traditional/shy type and isn't one to initiate a whole lot.) I texted her before she left wishing she had a good safe trip and she replied mainly with short texts back. Now the thing is I dont want to seem like a clingy/needy guy and I'm truly not that type. But I dont want to over-talk to her or bug her while she is visiting her family, but at the same time I dont want her to think Im not interested by not talking to her at all. Like I said, Im quite certain the phone conversation went real well and ended on a "it was real nice talking to you" note. I hope this makes sense. Basically how do I play this or am I missing something blatant here? Thanks, Justin
veggirl Posted December 27, 2012 Posted December 27, 2012 Why don't you just wait a few days and then text her on NYeve and wish her a happy new year and that you will give her a call when she gets back cause you'd like to take her out then.
Author LostInTranslation24 Posted December 28, 2012 Author Posted December 28, 2012 Well i thought about doing that. I did text her wishing a merry christmas. I just want to make sure doing this wont make me seem clingy. I guess im lookin for a womans perspective, to keep me from doing anything stupid. Most girls initiate texts and whatnot but she hasnt....yet. But we literally jut started talking and its not like we are dating.
veggirl Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 Well i thought about doing that. I did text her wishing a merry christmas. I just want to make sure doing this wont make me seem clingy. I guess im lookin for a womans perspective, to keep me from doing anything stupid. Most girls initiate texts and whatnot but she hasnt....yet. But we literally jut started talking and its not like we are dating. Then just wait til she gets home and call her and ask her out? I don't know, if you guys haven't even gone on a date and she is shy I can see her not initiating many texts. Of course it would be nice if she contributed but....Idk I would wish her a happy new year and say you hope you can take her out in the new year or whatever. I don't think that's clingy lol.
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