HurtinUnit Posted December 27, 2012 Posted December 27, 2012 I just sent a message to the girl my ex has been texting/calling behind my back asking for the truth. Oh the next few days here should be fun
denxnis Posted December 27, 2012 Posted December 27, 2012 Damage control, send another message saying "Please ignore, just going through a tough time right now". Then do no contact. I don't think I've seen someone come on these forums and say they've regretted no contact... 1
TaraMaiden Posted December 27, 2012 Posted December 27, 2012 Yes, just say: "Big mistake on my part. apologies, forget I asked. Sorry." or similar. Really, back off and save your dignity, hun....
Author HurtinUnit Posted December 27, 2012 Author Posted December 27, 2012 Done - thanks I need a slap
TaraMaiden Posted December 27, 2012 Posted December 27, 2012 No. Someone needs a slap - and it isn't you. It's the phukkin' rent-a-hug-stupid mug' you're currently with.
Samilia Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 Please, you're not fking stupid, we've all done something similar. Actually let me give you my "im so fking stupid moment". When I was 17 my bf of 2 years broke up with me. Well, I showed up at the beach where I knew he'd be and sat there for a while trying to chat him up, while his new gf was there. Yup. Thank God my mom was still waiting in the car for me. lol
Author HurtinUnit Posted December 29, 2012 Author Posted December 29, 2012 Thanks guys all much appreciated... That has made me so embarrassed, I can't even begin to explain. The second I hit send I freaked out. she hasn't replied period, I'm thankful. I wasn't nasty in the slightest, don't want to be. I don't even care about her role in this. He owns it. I have nothing against her, so at least that was on my side. I do wonder if she told him though. he has not said anything to me about it. and I don't care. TaraMaiden No. Someone needs a slap - and it isn't you. It's the phukkin' rent-a-hug-stupid mug' you're currently with. Thanks, I hadn't laughed since this started. That was desperately needed
Samilia Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 Thanks guys all much appreciated... That has made me so embarrassed, I can't even begin to explain. The second I hit send I freaked out. she hasn't replied period, I'm thankful. I wasn't nasty in the slightest, don't want to be. I don't even care about her role in this. He owns it. I have nothing against her, so at least that was on my side. I do wonder if she told him though. he has not said anything to me about it. and I don't care. Thanks, I hadn't laughed since this started. That was desperately needed She probably did, but the second text was your your redemption. I wouldn't worry about it, just ignore them both though, don't walk this path again.
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