Dangraystyle Posted December 27, 2012 Posted December 27, 2012 I'm a 22 year old guy, who has never truly had a girlfriend. I had some experiences with girls in my teenage years which has been both physical and not. I am a virgin even though I've come about as close as you can get(story for another day) without going through the whole thing. I've spent the last 2 years getting my **** together and I felt recently that I'm ready to start truly dating for the first time. Anyway to my story, I joined up on OKC a month ago and the day that I joined a pretty girl contacted me and we had great back and forth conversation for that day and the next. I asked for her number and she obliged. We spent a week texting back and forth and everything was great, not perfect but great. Neither of us was clingy, it never got weird but we agreed that we were starting to feel something for each other even though we hadn't met yet. So we met and we had coffee and walked around londons famous places and everything went really well. She kissed me on the lips as we parted. Second date was a week later to see a movie. Again the week leading up to it we text each other every day. We saw a movie together and this is where things began heating up. It started slow but we built up the tension to the point where we couldn't keep our hands off each other even with everyone around us. The whole date was electric! Third date we went shopping together and after she wanted to go to the cinema AGAIN. She clearly wanted more and this time I took it further, I literally felt her in every single place in her body and we would kiss for 5+ minutes at a time. Even with that said the conversational chemistry between us was still great. I really like this girl and I think she likes me even more. I think were basically together now. The day before I left the country for a few days, we built up the tension during the texting that we started sexting each other. It turned me really on and she said the same.... And that's my story! Now I got some questions: 1. Every date we've had when things got a bit quiet between us she would get out her phone and play with it for like 30 seconds. Slightly strange no? 2. Ive paid for every date. I don't mind at all, but I'm wondering if I should start talking to her about splitting the cost between us now. 3. I'm clearly on the verge of sex, she wants me really bad and she has said as much. I've been truthful about everything except 1 thing. After the sext she asked me how many people I've slept with. I told her 1 when I'm actually a virgin. Bad idea? Also just as we reaching climax in the sexting her reply was "and you would **** me. I'm falling asleep now sorry. Have a fun time in holland x" you're falling asleep!?!? To be fair it was 1am and she's fallen asleep texting me before but still!! 4. I live with my parents and she stays in her own place and she always talks about coming round to watch tv and films together. This cleary means sex but she has 3 flatmates. Won't it be wierd with them so close by? 5. Im going ice skating with her the beginning of next year. This is something I said we should do even though she's nervous about it. But I alpha maled the situation and said if you wanna be with me you're gonna have to take a little risk and trust me. Her response was I dont care as long as I'm with you. How do I now escalate all this back to her place? We had some films that we wanted to watch together and were buying for each other. Do I give the film to her on the date and hope she asks me back? Should I just wait until she says I'm ready? Which seems so close, dont you think I think the moment I knew I sealed the deal was when she showed her friends pictures of me and they said I was hot and wanted to steal me. That is the ultimate seal of approval right?
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