rach24680 Posted December 27, 2012 Posted December 27, 2012 I've been talking to a lovely guy for about 5 weeks, we've met up once and it was really good and we carried on talking, now he talks to me every day and he is flirty and he knows i'm interested but never makes plans to see me. This has happened with other guys too, i wonder what i'm doing wrong? Not blowing my own trumpet but i'm quite good looking, oky body, good and fun to get along with, not easy. fed up of gettin **** on by guys and just being the girl guys talk to rather than hanging out/dating. any ideas? am i giving off a bad vibe?
Axee Posted December 27, 2012 Posted December 27, 2012 You are not alone. Nope, its them , not you , no matter how good you are , many guys want only Angelina Jolie.. Hang on, there are a few men who respect genuine girls.
Author rach24680 Posted December 27, 2012 Author Posted December 27, 2012 Haha funny, but true! Daft sods, my own fault it gets me upset, i fall for people far too easily!
veggirl Posted December 27, 2012 Posted December 27, 2012 Haha funny, but true! Daft sods, my own fault it gets me upset, i fall for people far too easily! and they probably pick up on that, which is a problem.
Author rach24680 Posted December 27, 2012 Author Posted December 27, 2012 and they probably pick up on that, which is a problem. Yea probably! just feel like they keep me there for 'back up' or something. I'd rather they just bin me off than string me along!
SJC2008 Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 If you're a back up you're dating out of your league. 1
todreaminblue Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 If she wasn't shooting for alpha males, this wouldn't happen. Then again, asking a girl to not go after alpha males is like trying to force a camel through the eye of a needle. A beta male never puts a girl on "standby". But no girls want them. sigh.....alpha beta omega crap again.....girls and guys get put on standby.....doesnt matter what they "shoot for".....it happens...it sucks....there are guys and girls who dont do it..has nothign to do with alpha beta omega delta foxtrot charlie.......deb 1
JuneJulySeptember Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 If she wasn't shooting for alpha males, this wouldn't happen. Then again, asking a girl to not go after alpha males is like trying to force a camel through the eye of a needle. A beta male never puts a girl on "standby". But no girls want them. Not as cut and dry as alpha/beta. But your point is accurate. Most any woman who describes herself as OP does has had men who would treat her like a queen with their full attention who she has no interest in. She just rejects them for better men. So, when a woman complains about not getting attention from a man, I have trouble feeling sympathy. If she TRULY had no other men after her and had rejected no men, and she was getting ignored, then yes, I would feel sympathy. But that is rarely the case. 2
Lonely Ronin Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 Just because you say something doesn't exist doesn't mean it's true. Stop giving people the benefit of the doubt and call a cat a cat. The same could be said about the crap you post....
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