Shim_kattty Posted December 27, 2012 Posted December 27, 2012 My ex broke up with me 5 months ago. He started a new relationship 3 months ago. We had been having sex but I recently cut contact & I let him know that he was hindering me from moving on. But he told me that he can't get over me but he NEEDS to but he loves me so much. He sends me old pics of us & "remember the times" text messages. Could one of you men explain to me if our relationship was so great & he's so in love with me why did he break up with me in the first place & why is he nearly killing himself trying to get over me when he broke up with me! Idk about you all, but if I have deep feelings for someone & the relationship was the best one I've ever had including better than the one I'm in now, I would not have left it behind in the first place!
Jono85 Posted December 27, 2012 Posted December 27, 2012 actions speak louder than words. that's all you need to know. continue to cut contact, and stop responding to him. if he truly means what he says (doubtful) he won't just let you go, he'll do everything in his power to get you back (again doubtful). but you're heading in the right direction by cutting contact, just stick to it. it will take timeeee, but eventually you'll stop caring/obsessing over it.
Treasa Posted December 27, 2012 Posted December 27, 2012 Not a guy, but it's fairly obvious...he gets to screw two different girls this way. And his compliments are keeping you on the hook. 2
Mcnulty Posted December 27, 2012 Posted December 27, 2012 He's a waste of space. He's cheating on his girl with you! You're just as bad as him really...what about the other girl, did that not bother you when you were boning him, that she is the innocent party?...makes me sick hearing crap like this on here. Actually, hang in there for him, he'll come back and you'll be happy ever after. 1
flitzanu Posted December 27, 2012 Posted December 27, 2012 Oh wow. He's over you, and doesn't like you enough to date because he left you to date the other girl, and you're still banging him with no reaponsibility of being involved. And after he bangs you he goes to his girlfriend and uses the same lines on her.
Author Shim_kattty Posted December 27, 2012 Author Posted December 27, 2012 He's a waste of space. He's cheating on his girl with you! You're just as bad as him really...what about the other girl, did that not bother you when you were boning him, that she is the innocent party?...makes me sick hearing crap like this on here. Actually, hang in there for him, he'll come back and you'll be happy ever after. Actually, she preyed on my relationship to get him so no, the little slut is not innocent & I couldn't care less about how she was feeling. It doesn't make me right, but it feels great knowing that she thinks she took him & he's still trying to be here with me. But I completely left him alone. I want a real relationship & I refuse to play the fence. Even if he came back I wouldn't accept because we've been through far too much to ever rekindle any flame
coltsfan1 Posted December 27, 2012 Posted December 27, 2012 Actually, she preyed on my relationship to get him so no, the little slut is not innocent & I couldn't care less about how she was feeling. It doesn't make me right, but it feels great knowing that she thinks she took him & he's still trying to be here with me. But I completely left him alone. I want a real relationship & I refuse to play the fence. Even if he came back I wouldn't accept because we've been through far too much to ever rekindle any flame Then why post? I don't mean that rude but if the above is your decision then stick to it. Sounds to me like you are screwing him to pay back the girl and I totally understand that. But women/men leave the way you got them, if they cheat to be with you they will cheat before they leave you. Just how it works!
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