bob the brave Posted December 27, 2012 Posted December 27, 2012 I can give tons of examples. Girls that have dumped me because I was a 'nice' guy and leave with the bad boy. He then abuses her and she comes back to me crying and wanting now wanting me. I have had guys tell me my problem is I am too nice. I am not a wimp or effemiant. It's just that I sincerely care about people and respect them. I don't use them as toys. But that it seems is the rule. Be selfish, get what you can and then when it creates drama, simply move on to the next. Every time I do something genuinely nice, people get really uncomfortable. It has been my experience that people are really more comfortable treating and being treated like crap. It seems because of this I am quite lonely and no one understands me. Girls show interest and then seem turned off when I treat others with respect, but love the bully who runs them down. Are people really this bad? What am I missing? What is it I fail to see or understand about people and relationships?
KungFuJoe Posted December 27, 2012 Posted December 27, 2012 I don't know what kind of problems you are having but I implore you...this is no reason for you to turn gay. You would be throwing in the towel way too soon. 2
TaraMaiden Posted December 27, 2012 Posted December 27, 2012 I can give tons of examples. Girls that have dumped me because I was a 'nice' guy and leave with the bad boy. He then abuses her and she comes back to me crying and wanting now wanting me. I have had guys tell me my problem is I am too nice. I am not a wimp or effemiant. It's just that I sincerely care about people and respect them. I don't use them as toys. But that it seems is the rule. Be selfish, get what you can and then when it creates drama, simply move on to the next. Every time I do something genuinely nice, people get really uncomfortable. It has been my experience that people are really more comfortable treating and being treated like crap. It seems because of this I am quite lonely and no one understands me. Girls show interest and then seem turned off when I treat others with respect, but love the bully who runs them down. Are people really this bad? What am I missing? What is it I fail to see or understand about people and relationships? The problem? You're being nice - with an agenda. Just be nice, with no expectations. Be nice, because it's a pleasure to be nice. But don't be an idiot about it. Be nice, but don't be a nice doormat.... 1
Eternal Sunshine Posted December 27, 2012 Posted December 27, 2012 Women reject you because they are not attracted to you. Being nice doesn't come into it.
TaraMaiden Posted December 27, 2012 Posted December 27, 2012 Being nice is probably the biggest turn off for women....Don't be duped by their fake Buddhism/Yoga/Spirituality "Oh I quote the Dalai Lama" garbage....It's all a bunch of crap and it's a bogus front women put on because they think it's what society expects of them....The Dalai Lama and Gandhi were probably virgins.... Gandhi had two sons, so that's wrong for a start.... You've obviously been hurt by women who weren't nice. Tell me - can you in all honesty point to anything about me that has personally hurt you and made you feel this way? Not all women are like this. Just as not all men are insensitive, childish jerks....
Radu Posted December 27, 2012 Posted December 27, 2012 Gandhi had two sons, so that's wrong for a start.... You've obviously been hurt by women who weren't nice. Tell me - can you in all honesty point to anything about me that has personally hurt you and made you feel this way? Not all women are like this. Just as not all men are insensitive, childish jerks.... Don't forget that he slept with his niece often too, for non-sexual reasons but still ...
TaraMaiden Posted December 27, 2012 Posted December 27, 2012 He slept with two women for the majority of his life, to master detachment and control of lust. Gandhi, that is, not bob the brave....
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