Cbbwink Posted December 27, 2012 Posted December 27, 2012 I would like to share my story to say just because things are falling apart its not the end of the world. 7 months ago I was dating a girl for 3 years. She was a talented actress and had so much going for her, and probably still does. She left me for another male actress.. It put me in chaos, I dont have much family, no friends, no one but my self. Now im not looking for you to be sorry, Im trying to convince you guys and gals you probably didnt have it as bad as I did. (not trying to be cocky) You can not find your self until you are lost in the world. I look at this horrible first love perfect relationship dump as a good thing. Yes it took a while but I had one mind set the whole time, I want to be the best I can be and I want to be better then everyone else, I want to be respected for who I am and what I have accomplished, I want to give the world something to remember me by before I leave this life. Thats a dream only I can accomplish. Being in a relationship for so long I forgot how to live, I am glad I have experienced a heart break because god dammit its a experience!! Life is full of these experiences good and bad! They teach you to grow and be a better person. So I urge all of you dumpees to give this experience a positive outlook, because it will make it go by faster and it will benefit you in the future. This new year be single, find out who you are, be the best you can be, take chances and risks, just experience life. (also with these quality's you will make tons of friends, and be very active to the ladies Here are a couple sites to ease some pain loveshack.org - I like reading others break ups because I know im not the only one and I could realize I didnt have it as bad as others. memebase.com - because its funny!! Marc and Angel Hack Life - Practical Tips for Productive Living - this site is amazing, the posts on here can make you wiser, ease pain, and open your eyes
Radu Posted December 27, 2012 Posted December 27, 2012 If my ex's would have been nicer to me, i might have never found the motivation to challenge my beliefs [idiotic ones] about love and dating. I'd still like to see them DIAF though. Would probably bring popcorn and a chair, watching them burn.
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