Kazz77 Posted December 26, 2012 Posted December 26, 2012 Hello all. A girl I know kissed me the other day when we were both pretty drunk. I'm usually all for girls doing this but this one has a husband. It didn't last very long, probably a few seconds tops. I kissed back but suddenly realised what was going on and pulled away. That was that although I was left absolutley stunned. Her friend who was witness to this asked 'are you okay?' I guess I just want this off my chest as I have been freaking out. I don't know why this happened, what to do now if anything or even if this is a big deal or not. I think if it were my wife though, I'd be pretty hurt but other guys may not really care? Thanks for listening and any thoughts welcome.
Ninjainpajamas Posted December 26, 2012 Posted December 26, 2012 IMO chalk it up to drunken behavior then get in your camaro and move on to the next town...don't make anything of it or stick around, regardless of what it is who cares...not something you should be involved in, you have no idea what's going on in her personal life/relationship and If I were you...wouldn't give a damn...don't become a gambling man, the house has the odds by a landslide. That's their business and doesn't concern you. 3
Author Kazz77 Posted December 27, 2012 Author Posted December 27, 2012 Thanks so much for replying. You are both right, I have no play to make. She is gorgeous (never noticed before) and the whole thing has left me feeling quite sad. Can't really put my finger on why.
TaraMaiden Posted December 27, 2012 Posted December 27, 2012 Because you actually quite like her, but she's unavailable. You were drunk enough to have your inhibitions lowered. You weren't so drunk that you didn't know what you were doing. In another time/place, maybe. But here? Now? Sorry, soldier. No go. And that? That sucks.
Ninjainpajamas Posted December 27, 2012 Posted December 27, 2012 There are a lot of gorgeous women out there...feast your eyes and lips on what that is available, because the drama alone would sink that ship you would get in now.
Author Kazz77 Posted December 28, 2012 Author Posted December 28, 2012 Thanks for the further responses, much appreciated. @TaraMaiden - You are definitely right. I obviously never thought of her as she was married. But when she made herself seem obtainable I suddenly thought that having her would be pretty great, It's a no go though and I'm sure it won't suck for long. @ninja - Don't worry I won't be trying anything! What do people think she is feeling? If it were your partner would you be bothered by a two or three second thing? Thanks again
TaraMaiden Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 If it were my partner, you bet I'd be bothered... Like I said - I think you were drunk enough to lower the inhibitions, but not so drunk as to be completely unaware... and if she is willing to do that to him - that's not a commendable trait. How would you feel about yourself if it had gone further... MUCH further? You'd be feeling like a complete heel, right? That's how she should be feeling.... and you think she will tell him? Hmmm... somehow, I doubt it.....
LazyPomato Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 Get out of town before her hubby shows up at your front door!
PogoStick Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 (edited) Can't believe I'm the only one wondering...Was she hot? To the rest of you, quit blaming the single guy! It's not his responsibility to police others' marriages. It's not like he was actively chasing her. Edited December 28, 2012 by PogoStick
Author Kazz77 Posted December 29, 2012 Author Posted December 29, 2012 If it were my partner, you bet I'd be bothered... Like I said - I think you were drunk enough to lower the inhibitions, but not so drunk as to be completely unaware... and if she is willing to do that to him - that's not a commendable trait. How would you feel about yourself if it had gone further... MUCH further? You'd be feeling like a complete heel, right? That's how she should be feeling.... and you think she will tell him? Hmmm... somehow, I doubt it..... Yes, an absolute heel. @Lazy - What makes you think I should be scared of him? Joke. @Pogo - Yes, she is hot. Only really began noticing after it happened though. I'm now thinking that our friendship might not recover from this.
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