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owch! lol, good to know Radu. I heard it was a support issue but never got it before, thanks.

 

I always wonder why guys have to sit with their legs so far apart on the subway, taking all the sitting space! Is that the berries too? Or are these guys simply selfish?

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Boxer briefs. I do not like briefs or bikinis AT ALL. Even on the hot bod dude Divasu posted. IMO, they just make him look gay. Not that there is anything wrong with that.

 

David Beckham in briefs looks gay? :lmao: haha that's a first.

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I agree with pteromom, Divasu.

 

I know he's hot but in a way it doesn't turn me on that much.

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I agree with pteromom, Divasu.

 

I know he's hot but in a way it doesn't turn me on that much.

 

Hey, everyone has different tastes. I'm just being silly. :p

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The rule for men's underwear, in my eyes, goes like this:

 

Hot, tight men can pull off hot, tight briefs. Like the more toned the guy, the tighter briefs he can pull off.

 

Small tight briefs look amazing on someone like Becks, but for most guys this isn't going to be the case.

 

Boxers look good on everyone. But seeing that nice tight package...that is very nice! Very nice! (Borat)

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No, definitely not a deal breaker.

 

My usual preference is boxer briefs, but I do find skinny guys in briefs as somewhat of an enticer. Maybe it's a gay thing :p

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owch! lol, good to know Radu. I heard it was a support issue but never got it before, thanks.

 

I always wonder why guys have to sit with their legs so far apart on the subway, taking all the sitting space! Is that the berries too? Or are these guys simply selfish?

 

Depends how far apart.

For one, exposing the genitals is a sign of masculinity as is framing the genitals.

 

You sometimes see teenagers do this on park benches.

They literally will sit with legs very wide apart, sometimes one of them on the bench, occupying the whole damn thing.

It makes them feel secure, that is their territory.

 

Other times when you see some dude talk [standing up] to some girl/girls that somewhat dig him; see what he does with his feet, as they will point to the one he likes the most, and see what he does with his hands.

Thumbs in pockets, hands out, you will see them pointing to the genitals, like a giant 'signal'. Similar to hands in pockets, and thumbs out.

 

If you want to figure it out, think of men and women as pack animals, imagine a dog in his/her place and you will get it right. :p

 

In case of the briefs, it can be better berries support.

Here's another thing they are good for, that few men will admit.

Hiding boners.

You go to work and there is that cutie that gives you a boner every time you see her [or hs/college ... whatever].

You do not want to get one during the presentation because her cleavage bounces up and down.

So you buy some briefs that are tight for you, they will stop your boner right there.

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I usually just get JKY boxer briefs from Target

 

jky boxer brief at Target

 

Pretty comfortable, look nice and cheap and the women that see me in them like them well enough to comment favorably. Tight on thighs and butt, but the crotch area has a pouch that gives you some room and even lifts your junk up a bit. Also have some CK, Joe Boxer, Diesel and others that are like those JKY's, but those things are like $25 per on the cheap.

 

For Halloween I got these

 

Google Image Result for http://i00.i.aliimg.com/img/pb/299/005/385/385005299_654.jpg

 

And that went over very well for the girls that saw it, not just because its Batman, but the cut looked good. Will get more in that style.

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I'm fine with any underwear style, but I do prefer something more fitted. I think a guy with a nice package and butt looks great in briefs, trunks, or boxer briefs. Plain old boxers are the most like granny panties to me, but there are some nicer ones that are OK.

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Underwear is overrated. I haven't worn them since I was 19.

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Haha, thanks Radu for the thesis, but you did not answer my main question! Does it hurt physically in the balls when the guy sits with his legs more together, rather than apart?

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It can hurt, but we can cross our legs in 'ladylike' fashion if need be.

 

I would say for most men though, it doesn't hurt to stay with the legs together instead of sprawling out.

It can lead to some interesting moments when you need to shift the contents of said briefs if you haven't cum in a long time. :(

And going from sprawled to crossed legs without experience can lead to berries caught and crushed.

 

It even matters on what underwear the guy is wearing.

With briefs it's easier, with boxers it's harder.

 

Depends how much space he occupies and the attitude he has ... so use it as part of a package of signals.

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Man, those seem like complicated maneuvers. No wonder guys don't have time to call us. They're maneuvering the whole day! :laugh:

 

I bet the sensitivity of the balls is equivalent to women boobs or so. Not that anyone will ever find out if that's the case.

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I really dislike boxers on men; they look so sloppy! I dated a few skinny guys who wore briefs and they looked quite good, so they're the runner-up. First place: Boxer-briefs! I melt into a puddle when I see my man in his. So hawt. :love:

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I bet the sensitivity of the balls is equivalent to women boobs or so. Not that anyone will ever find out if that's the case.

 

Uh; the balls are more in line with the clit in terms of sensitivity, and even then it's a stretch because the clit has double the nerves the penis head has I believe.

 

In any event, balls are sensitive if not in use. During sex, they're so tight and full you could punch them and I probably wouldn't flinch.

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I dated this really adonis-like guy who only wore briefs and it notched down my desire around a point or two :( I know it sounds illogical but I can't control what my vajayjay feels. I feel relief when a guy pants come down and they're wearing boxers. "Phew".
Yikes!! Did I date you?!?

 

Self-confessed brief-wearer here. It's a matter of comfort. The Lord has been very generous to some of us and we need the support that briefs provide. Wearing boxers can be painful.

 

I don't care whether a woman like my underwear. She doesn't have to wear it, I do. If she doesn't want to date me because of what kind of underwear that I wear, then that's fine with me. If she's going to get bent out of shape over something as trivial as that, then she's going to be whining and complaining about LOTS of other things. No thank you!

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I'm a boxers man, and some times I think women like that I wear them, because that meant they can steal them to sleep. :D:D

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I have always been a boxer guy since i was in middle school. Unless you wanted to get beat up, you wore boxers. Up until recently all my underwear were boxers.

 

In the last few years as I have become more secure with myself and my sexuality I have started wearing more boxer-briefs and even more recently briefs or trunks.

 

Honestly wearing briefs and smaller/tighter underwear make me feel more sexy and show off my package better. I still leave plenty of space for the boys, but now i don't have to flop around all day. That being said, I don't think i would ever wear "tighty whiteys", but something more colorful and sexy.

 

So is deviating from the status-quo boxers a deal breaker? Do you find a man who is secure with his underwear selection sexy?

 

I've worn briefs all my life. Nobody gave me grief over it, or at least, I never cared? Boxers suck, period. If guys have to wear boxers, then girls should not wear bras.

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Easyheart! Kissing and telling everyone! :mad: Hope you don't post links to our intimate pics. Just for the record, I liked you in briefs. Even the ones with the holes in them.

 

MrCastle, really? As the clit? Owch! Would never guess. I heard the clit is similar to penis head nerves. Great lesson, didn't know about balls during sex. So if you don't feel them that well while doing it, why do guys like to have them grabbed, etc? Also I wonder why they get more sensitive if not in use. Hmm looks like I need a whole balls lesson, haha.

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I have only been with 1 guy, and he went commando. :laugh: I found that INCREDIBLY sexy. I wish more men did that. The only time my ex would wear boxers was when he was gonna go out on the balcony to smoke. I have no experience with underwear-wearing men, and now that I've experienced a man who went commando, all kinds of underwear for men seems too feminine. :laugh: Deal-breaker? Nah. More like, I find it hot/ or not. Commando definitely biggest turn-on, though. If I had to pick , though, I'd go with boxers, because when my ex wore boxers to smoke outside, he looked incredibly sexy in those as well.

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It can hurt, but we can cross our legs in 'ladylike' fashion if need be.

 

I would say for most men though, it doesn't hurt to stay with the legs together instead of sprawling out.

It can lead to some interesting moments when you need to shift the contents of said briefs if you haven't cum in a long time. :(

And going from sprawled to crossed legs without experience can lead to berries caught and crushed.

 

It even matters on what underwear the guy is wearing.

With briefs it's easier, with boxers it's harder.

 

Depends how much space he occupies and the attitude he has ... so use it as part of a package of signals.

:eek::confused:

 

One reason I am glad I am not a guy....

 

Although, not sure if that's worse than bleeding for 4 days out of your genitalia.... :laugh::sick:

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Underwear is overrated. I haven't worn them since I was 19.

:love::love::love::love:

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Boxers only, although some are too baggy and I can't wear those to the gym because there is way to much movement going on down there. The balls are funny, i've hit them decently hard and sometimes feel nothing, other times they are barely touched and eyes can water up. Ya legs too close can cause pain sometimes. Maybe i'm to young but I can't sit on mine, they don't hang that low....

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Briefs are too constricting, I need room to breathe.. :eek:

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:eek::confused:

 

One reason I am glad I am not a guy....

 

Although, not sure if that's worse than bleeding for 4 days out of your genitalia.... :laugh::sick:

 

It's unnatural for something to bleed for so long and not die.

 

Hence why in some cultures, women menstruating were not allowed in Church as they would have spilled blood.

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