Is a man's underwear selection a deal breaker?

[jakelongot]

I have always been a boxer guy since i was in middle school. Unless you wanted to get beat up, you wore boxers. Up until recently all my underwear were boxers.

 

In the last few years as I have become more secure with myself and my sexuality I have started wearing more boxer-briefs and even more recently briefs or trunks.

 

Honestly wearing briefs and smaller/tighter underwear make me feel more sexy and show off my package better. I still leave plenty of space for the boys, but now i don't have to flop around all day. That being said, I don't think i would ever wear "tighty whiteys", but something more colorful and sexy.

 

So is deviating from the status-quo boxers a deal breaker? Do you find a man who is secure with his underwear selection sexy?

[TheZebra]

As long as you change underwear every day and keep them clean I don't care what your preference is. As in, neither are a deal-breaker and won't affect whether I'll date the guy or not.

 

However, this may be cultural, but I find briefs sexier and more of a turn-on when the pants come off

[jakelongot]

As long as you change underwear every day and keep them clean I don't care what your preference is. As in, neither are a deal-breaker and won't affect whether I'll date the guy or not.

 

However, this may be cultural, but I find briefs sexier and more of a turn-on when the pants come off

 

obvious underwear hygene is obvious

 

Interesting that you say you find briefs sexier...usual response is something like "I like my man wearing boxers because it is more manly"

 

I assume you find briefs sexier because of the reasons i've outlined above? Care to elaborate

[jakelongot]

Every guy I have dated has worn boxer briefs. I find them to be a lot nicer than boxers.

 

Out of curiousity...Are you in the 20-30 age bracket or 30-40?

 

Would boxer briefs be your preference on a man? Or ideally would you prefer another cut?

[Under The Radar]

Every guy I have dated has worn boxer briefs. I find them to be a lot nicer than boxers.

 

Yep, I look damn good in my Boxer Briefs . Tighty Whities and Boxer Shorts just can't compare.

[EasyHeart]

By the time she sees your underwear, she's already decided that she likes you.

[jakelongot]

By the time she sees your underwear, she's already decided that she likes you.

 

ha! I guess so Are girls generally expecting a guy to be wearing boxers or boxer briefs before the pants get dropped that first time? Would a deviation from the status quo cause pause or hestitation?

 

Most women/men have some kind of fantasy of what they expect their partner to look like under the clothes before you step into the bedroom. Personally the underwear selection is apart of that vision for me, I gotta imagine it is that way for women as well???

[edgygirl]

I call briefs the "love-killing" items of the underwear world. Specially if they're white. They're in the same category of grannies skin color panties. Boxers are much, much more sexier. Just goes better with males bodies. Yes, more manly in my view.

 

It's true that if we see you in your underwear we already decided we like you as said above, but still, it can be as much of a turn-off as grannie panties are for you.

 

I dated this really adonis-like guy who only wore briefs and it notched down my desire around a point or two I know it sounds illogical but I can't control what my vajayjay feels. I feel relief when a guy pants come down and they're wearing boxers. "Phew".

Edited December 26, 2012 by edgygirl

[Radu]

In my country, it is the boxers that are unusual.

Most guys wear briefs, white ones.

 

That being said, boxers are better for medical reasons ... they do in fact increase sperm count because they provide better breathing space for the testes.

 

In terms of attraction, she has already decided she wants to see you naked ... if she changes her mind, you are better off without her [unless it's a ONS].

[TheZebra]

Well I grew up in a country where men wear briefs and speedos, so it's more normal for me to see it. The other reason I find them sexier is because they outline everything more and gets my mind thinking and imagining

[jakelongot]

I call briefs the "love-killing" items of the underwear world. Specially if they're white. They're in the same category of grannies skin color panties. Boxers are much, much more sexier. Just goes better with males bodies. Yes, more manly in my view.

 

It's true that if we see you in your underwear we already decided we like you as said above, but still, it can be as much of a turn-off as grannie panties are for you.

 

I dated this really adonis-like guy who only wore briefs and it notched down my desire around a point or two I know it sounds illogical but I can't control what my vajayjay feels. I feel relief when a guy pants come down and they're wearing boxers. "Phew".

 

thank you for the honest feedback

[Divasu]

I call briefs the "love-killing" items of the underwear world. Specially if they're white.

 

Nonsense...

 

A man wearing Fruit of the Looms = a confident man.

[edgygirl]

A man that doesn't have to "prove" the size of his junk through briefs = a confident man

[Radu]

A man that doesn't have to "prove" the size of his junk through briefs = a confident man

 

Not all men have big 'junk' when flaccid.

Just a thought.

[monicaelise]

Definitely prefer boxers...by a lot. Boxer briefs are okay too, provided the man in question has the bod to carry them off. Love handles or a paunch do not work with anything that is snug fitting. Absolutely do not like briefs or any kind of "bikini" on a man.

 

Also prefer black or white though navy, grey and olive drab (love my military men) to anything bright or patterned. Bright colours should be reserved for women and tropical fish.

[Divasu]

A man that doesn't have to "prove" the size of his junk through briefs = a confident man

 

Or, maybe he just likes it snug down there?

 

Loose fitting short 'Boxer Shorts' are nice too.

[edgygirl]

Not all men have big 'junk' when flaccid.

Just a thought.

 

Exactly. That's just one more reason boxers are better

[Radu]

Guys still prefer briefs in many countries edgy.

[edgygirl]

Men wearing briefs invariable remind me of this:

 

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[KungFuJoe]

That's why I rarely wear underwear.

[Divasu]

 

Men wearing briefs remind me of this:

 

http://imgarm.yoox.biz/img/xyarmani/underwear/flash_placeholder.jpg

 

[edgygirl]

Yeah but without that Beckham bod, most men look meh in briefs. Boxers "save" most average-looking guys.

[edgygirl]

Guys still prefer briefs in many countries edgy.

 

I understand why they do and I don't think it's even related to counties. I think it supports one's junk better and feels more comfy for them. I also prefer comfy panties. So theoretically it's fine, I can put up with that Still, boxers are way cuter and sexier.

[Radu]

I'll be blunt with you edgy.

 

Sometimes, when you wear boxers ... you can end up sitting on the berries.

Have you ever seen a guy built like a bear, sit down, and make good use of his size [imagine Seth Rogen trying to sit down], only to see him acrobatically jump into the air and jumping all around ?

 

Well me neither, but i was that guy.

[pteromom]

Boxer briefs. I do not like briefs or bikinis AT ALL. Even on the hot bod dude Divasu posted. IMO, they just make him look gay. Not that there is anything wrong with that.