sedona Posted December 26, 2012 Posted December 26, 2012 My BF of four years hasn't had sex with me for the past two (nothing physically wrong), and he prioritizes work over me so the only time we've really had together is from 10pm onwards and then sleeping together, cuddling. We've been (briefly) to couples therapy, and he's seen someone on his own every once in a while. He says he loves me & wants to spend his life with me. I love him...but finally told him- in a moment of strength- that we can't sleep together anymore he takes the initative, leading to concrete, positive changes. It was the thought of living in the same limbo for 2013, just like 2012. Since then, we followed through on Xmas family celebrations. Today is the first day after all that. I curse having a cell phone, because it doesn't ring. I couldn't bear another year of this relationship the way it's been, but I feel like I can't bear this absence either. I keep trying to tell myself that this is the only way to find my life partner. If it will be him, then he need to be pro-active. If it's not going to be him, then I need him out of my life. Withdrawal symptoms are painful and I feel lonely. At the same time, I know he will call at some point. I am afraid we will just fall into the same old pattern again. Sorry, no real question but this beats texting. Now the phone needs turning off!
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