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When you feel like you miss them, remember all the little irritating things...

Keenly

By Keenly
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NoMoreJerks Established Member

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Hahaha what a boy!

My ex slept with a girl cuddling(no sex) and told me that was just a friendly sleepover. Men, they just had to do things to hurt us, don't they?

Some of them (like my ex) are immature and/or have major issues! Mine was a narcissist FOR SURE. I don't know about yours, but he sounds immature from what you wrote.. or they just think so lowly of us as to think that we're stupid and can't tell that they're cheating, etc.

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th90 Established Member

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Some of them (like my ex) are immature and/or have major issues! Mine was a narcissist FOR SURE. I don't know about yours, but he sounds immature from what you wrote.. or they just think so lowly of us as to think that we're stupid and can't tell that they're cheating, etc.

 

Ya he denied there was someone else. I dont know he was being truthful or just didnt have the balls to come clean. I'm left heartbroken to know he is the weong guy after 7 years. It's harder when I've got nothing bad to say about him and wish I was a better gf to him. I really cant blame him for anything. Only myself for being blind.

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Some of them (like my ex) are immature and/or have major issues! Mine was a narcissist FOR SURE. I don't know about yours, but he sounds immature from what you wrote.. or they just think so lowly of us as to think that we're stupid and can't tell that they're cheating, etc.

 

It's pathetic what some people think isn't cheating. I went to a girls hotel and cuddled and did a bit, and she figured she wasn't cheating on her BF I couldn't believe it, I felt bad for him. How many people think it's ok to feel up someone else and be in the same bed like seriously I don't get it.

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I just keep remembering the fact that he wanted to string me along. He didn't want to feel at all obligated or indebted to me and didn't want to feel guilty for the "things he did with others", but he didn't want me out of his life, either, in case he wanted to come back to me after he did those things :rolleyes: He told me that I could be a "casual friend" of his, which meant talking to him about not-too-personal things every couple of days for short periods of time :rolleyes: I asked him if he would tell any of his friends that "they could only talk for short periods of time about shallow things" and I think he realized what an idiot he was being. I think I finally got him to realize that the only fair thing for him to do was to let me go completely and to not ask me to stay in his life.

 

I don't think he's malicious, I think he just doesn't know what he wants and doesn't realize how hurtful he's being to me. Still, sometimes it helps to think that he's malicious when I'm missing him.

th90 Established Member

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It's pathetic what some people think isn't cheating. I went to a girls hotel and cuddled and did a bit, and she figured she wasn't cheating on her BF I couldn't believe it, I felt bad for him. How many people think it's ok to feel up someone else and be in the same bed like seriously I don't get it.

 

Well I hope you were not aware she was taken prior to that. It disgusts me that the girl my ex slept with was in a relationship as well.

livelife Established Member

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This morning I woke up and was getting a really bad "missing her" feeling.

 

 

However, in the shower I remembered 2 instances that really pissed me off, and help me remember what was happening, why it was happening, and kept me from contacting her.

 

 

1. A little back story first, I am the kind of guy who loves to buy flowers for his girl, especially if I really like you. I love giving surprises. Anyway, one day I bought a dozen red roses and a dozen white ones. I arranged all the red ones together in the middle in the shape of a heart and the roses on the outside were white. I handed these to her hoping to see the biggest smile on her face, instead she only said exactly this. "Stop buying me flowers, all they do is die."

 

2. One time, I heard he say about a picture of the two of us "I really like this picture." I took it to kinkos, got it printed out, bought a really nice frame for it "the kind you put on a table or desk." When I handed it to her she said "I don't have anywhere to put it, you go ahead and keep it."

 

 

Do you have any similar experiences that you could remember to help keep you from contacting them?

 

 

Wow. her loss!!! When I read what you did for her I melted and said "awwww"!

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