listen_to_me_please Posted December 26, 2012 Posted December 26, 2012 Time Line September - 2008 - ex starts to act funny Feb - 2009 - Best Friend Tells me ex is fawking someone else Feb - 2009 - Break Up March 2009 - She blames me, I curse her out, etc etc April 2009 - The end. August 2009 - Send drunken test saying I miss her November 2010 - Recieved facebook friend request Jan 2011 - Accept friend request Feb 2011 - We talk on phone, she says she has vacation days and she can visit me in the summer (her idea) March - Aug 2011 - Limited contact Aug 2011 - Woke up one day and said, she's a whore I want nothing to do with her, send her a FB message cussing her out Jan 2012 - Sent her Happy New Year message Feb 2012 - says because of my message she doesn't think we can be cool March 2012 - Told her she's two face and immature March 2012 - She ask(s) me about a pieace of clothing March 2012 - I tell her where to buy it March 2012 - She ask if I could send it to her to save her money March 2012 - Told her no I could not August 2012 - Asked her what she was up too No response August 2012 - Block her on FB, her brother, dude she cheated with and all her friends December 2012 - Unblock her So now all these years later I'm starting to think "She was not that into you"
Appleness Posted December 26, 2012 Posted December 26, 2012 Yep. I think your timeline really should have stopped at "April 2009". Please just block this person out of your life.
Sav Posted December 26, 2012 Posted December 26, 2012 Wait wait wait whatttt..unblock? Block her again for your own sake
veggirl Posted December 26, 2012 Posted December 26, 2012 That's a whole lotta wasted time. Why do you keep getting in that cycle? Just stop.
Author listen_to_me_please Posted January 3, 2013 Author Posted January 3, 2013 (edited) yeah, you guys are right. I can't help it. I blocked her again, NC 5 years, we spoke for maybe 30 minutes in all that time combined. one weird thing, out of all my relationship(s), I am in contact with ALL OF THEM, all of them still love me, i can date ALL of them, except the last 3. strange, the last 3 occured after my breakup 5 years ago, i think i am treating them like how my ex treated me, none of them want anything to do with me, i'm starting to think its because of the way i ended it. ie "i don't want her, she can eat manure, i don't need her, shes still in love with me, i don't want to lead her on" eww, that girl messed up my mind. wow, i treated this one girl so bad, she was only nice to me. rebounds are not a good thing with a quality female, you will always regret it. i use to be a nice guy, i dunno what happen Edited January 3, 2013 by listen_to_me_please
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