frederickkk Posted December 26, 2012 Posted December 26, 2012 so, do i go over there? do i go out in her town? i really want to see her, but there is nothing from her side. thats my own fault. either now or never.
geegirl Posted December 26, 2012 Posted December 26, 2012 Now or never. You once said you are a fighter. Go fight for her. Buy some flowers and go for her.
spaniard Posted December 26, 2012 Posted December 26, 2012 ^ this. Buy her favourite flower, go talk to her.
Author frederickkk Posted December 26, 2012 Author Posted December 26, 2012 i risk upsetting a lot of people, her family, friends that may be at her house. i dont know.......maybe i will call her house tomorrow and see if she wants to talk. i don't know.....ive spent enough on alcohol to try and get over this girl, nothing has worked and im dipping in mental state. i just want to get us back. and once back, it can be good. i know it can be good.
geegirl Posted December 26, 2012 Posted December 26, 2012 Yes, call her at her house or take flowers over when no one is there. Alcohol won't help you. It is a depressant. It only takes you deeper into your abyss. Emailing her every 5-6 days and continuing to live in denial is called not letting go. This is why you are still here. It may be good for you. But it isn't for her. Don't speak for someone else until you actually hear them say the words. And if you want to know how she feels, be that fighter. Stop hiding behind the scenes and guessing. Face her and ask her and let her say the words to you.
Author frederickkk Posted December 26, 2012 Author Posted December 26, 2012 it is a shame that she gives me a world of confusion, yet has to tell others, not me to my face that she wants me to move on. cowardly.
geegirl Posted December 26, 2012 Posted December 26, 2012 (edited) it is a shame that she gives me a world of confusion, yet has to tell others, not me to my face that she wants me to move on. cowardly. She has not given you a world of confusion. You've instilled that upon yourself. Her silence is her answer to you. It's her way of letting you go and letting you move on. The message is loud and clear. You just choose to ignore it. And if she has told others, then take heed and move on. She changed her number. Did she tell you? No. That was her way of not wanting anything to do with you. When I care about someone, I will let them know I have changed my number because I want to hear from them. She didn't tell you. You had to find out the hard way. Again, you choose to ignore the message. Edited December 26, 2012 by geegirl
spaniard Posted December 26, 2012 Posted December 26, 2012 frederickkk, you still think she has feelings for you? come on, man, i thought you have already accepted it.
Frank13 Posted December 27, 2012 Posted December 27, 2012 Frederickkk You need to fight for her. Buy her a brand new car, even if you can't afford it. Take it to her house when her family is there. If she doesn't want it, give it to her family. They will like you so much for doing this that they will talk her into getting back together with you.
Renard99 Posted December 27, 2012 Posted December 27, 2012 (edited) it is a shame that she gives me a world of confusion, yet has to tell others, not me to my face that she wants me to move on. cowardly. The irony of that is that you are, in fact, the one who looks like a coward. You have said time and time again that you will do whatever it takes to get her back.... yet you're scared of causing upsetting some people? I'm afraid it is you that comes across as the coward. If you want her go and get her. If not, just sit there sending unanswered emails forever more, whatever makes you feel better! Edited December 27, 2012 by Renard99
Zammo25 Posted December 27, 2012 Posted December 27, 2012 You bunch of sad f*cks winding this guy up knowing he has no chance and will probably end up in Jail. I used to think Loveshack was a site of compassion but now I know it is full of Trolls like every other internet forum. I hope you can live with yourselves if this guy acts upon the words on here. W*nkers.
Author frederickkk Posted December 27, 2012 Author Posted December 27, 2012 ive got a chance alright, ive got 6 months to sort it out.
Bumaga vsyo sterpit Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 Go for it dude! Fortune favors the brave! You will at least impress her for sure. Exes always expect that their birthdays will be forgotten. It'll show her you really care, even after she's broken up with you.
thembones Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 Sometime fighters just know when to quit. I'm a fighter but I have given up. It's my birthday today, hers tomorrow... I know I won't get a text and I CAN'T do anything on her birthday. It will only be a setback. Doesn't matter what you want anymore.
Renard99 Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 You bunch of sad f*cks winding this guy up knowing he has no chance and will probably end up in Jail. I used to think Loveshack was a site of compassion but now I know it is full of Trolls like every other internet forum. I hope you can live with yourselves if this guy acts upon the words on here. W*nkers. How dare you come on and sling offensive names at us. If you read his previous threads you'll notice we did the soft, friendly approach. We did the slightly authoritative approach. We also did the stern approach but NONE of them worked. So now we resort to the 'cruel to be kind' method. He needs to learn the hard way what the consequences of his actions are, so, in fact, getting arrested may be the kick up the backside that he needs as he's certainly not listening to us. But, sure, don't bother to look at the back story, don't bother trying to work out what we're trying to do, just come in all guns blazing with your down right offensive language and name calling. Makes you look really good.
Sav Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 How dare you come on and sling offensive names at us. If you read his previous threads you'll notice we did the soft, friendly approach. We did the slightly authoritative approach. We also did the stern approach but NONE of them worked. So now we resort to the 'cruel to be kind' method. He needs to learn the hard way what the consequences of his actions are, so, in fact, getting arrested may be the kick up the backside that he needs as he's certainly not listening to us. But, sure, don't bother to look at the back story, don't bother trying to work out what we're trying to do, just come in all guns blazing with your down right offensive language and name calling. Makes you look really good. Seconded. You think you're all up there when u actually don't even know the story. Shoo
geegirl Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 You bunch of sad f*cks winding this guy up knowing he has no chance and will probably end up in Jail. I used to think Loveshack was a site of compassion but now I know it is full of Trolls like every other internet forum. I hope you can live with yourselves if this guy acts upon the words on here. W*nkers. Please read threads from Fred stemming from August and you will see that posters have tried to help him understand that he has no chance with her and that his persistence will land him in jail. Tried the kind way, the tough and now everyone is just going with the flow because he just won't listen. You mentioned that we should not judge in QB's thread, but here you go with your ugly comments when you don't known what you speak of. If you are going to visit the site and once every now and then, at least do your homework before you go off.
Author frederickkk Posted December 28, 2012 Author Posted December 28, 2012 6 months. if i play my cards right. i need to go No Contact to June, drop 2 stone, convert body, go on holiday, get tan, release wicked dance music. I'm going to get there. New wardrobe.
geegirl Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 6 months. if i play my cards right. i need to go No Contact to June, drop 2 stone, convert body, go on holiday, get tan, release wicked dance music. I'm going to get there. New wardrobe. 6 months no contact?
geegirl Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 yeah...talk the talk... Yep, it's the putting into action that's the hard part. But no one ever said healing was easy.
Author frederickkk Posted December 28, 2012 Author Posted December 28, 2012 while she ****s everyone else under the sun, if that is what is going on......after talking to mutual friends, doesnt seem to be the case. what does she want me to do? go out and pull? like, she had issues with me moving on.
geegirl Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 Issues with you moving on is not stemming from a place of love. It's coming from an ego that needs to be stroked. She's used you only for sex. Called the cops on you. Her friends made fun of you. She's changed her number to keep you away. Ignores you emails. Trust, there is no love loss in her mind.
Zammo25 Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 My sincere apologies everyone. My bitter frame of mind got the better of me
Author frederickkk Posted December 28, 2012 Author Posted December 28, 2012 Issues with you moving on is not stemming from a place of love. It's coming from an ego that needs to be stroked. She's used you only for sex. Called the cops on you. Her friends made fun of you. She's changed her number to keep you away. Ignores you emails. Trust, there is no love loss in her mind. nope its not ego. i could come back here in ten years and still feel the same.
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