Yeah, that's right! I got the Xmas text

[itsmyfault]

Got the Xmas text from my Ex last night.

At the time I just read it and deleted it. I was annoyed she sent one. I hadn't given her a thought that day.

 

So as she was playing on my mind from then on I broke my NC. I feel I'm ready and won't take a step back. I have no love for her anymore.

 

I don't have her number saved so I just simply messaged her saying did you text me yesterday (Xmas)

 

She said yes, I told her I didn't reply because I didn't think it was a good idea. I told her the only reason I was contacting her now is to tell her I wasn't being horrible, and she should know that. ( we parted on fairly good terms)

 

I went on to say that we are both happier where we are now in our life's. I'm not dwelling on the past so I don't think she should either. I told her I'd appreciate it if she did not contact me, as I certainly won't be contacting her.

I said I'm not doing this out of spite or hatred, but simply because I'm a firm believer of the past is the past.

She just replied "okay, take care" personally I think I touched a nerve but I don't care.

 

I'm sure some of you will say breaking NC was stupid but I didn't ask about her life or how she had been, I simply told her to move on and forget me, as I am with her. If anything I feel stronger for being able to tell her that.

[Chi townD]

Well, you broke NC. You're not the first and you won't be the last. However, your broken NC consisted of reenforcing your need for NC and closing that door once again. So, overall, you handled it well.

[itsmyfault]

I did it because last time we spoke it was friendly and I said I'd maybe speak to her in te new year. Since then I've decided a friendship is not on the cards.

 

She has a new boyfriend she has no need for me! She said she just wanted to know if I had a good day. I didn't tell her.

 

Part of me wishes I had just ignored it but such is life. If anything she will have had her ego bruised. I certainly wasn't going to boost her ego.