redkangaroo Posted December 26, 2012 Posted December 26, 2012 Dear LSers, I'm looking for your advice. I met a girl last summer at a party, she is a friend of my friends, but somehow it happened that I had never seen her before. I really liked her, I think she liked me too. She made it that way that we talked all night to each other only ignoring other people and ended the night kissing. I left to different country next day after we met and never seen her since. We were texting each other time to time, even discussed a subject that we might be a couple someday. I didn't try to develop it to LD relationship, as I had LDR before and it was a nightmare, plus I was busy and didn't have time to communicate with her a lot. Last week she offered to talk on Skype video call, that's what we did. We talked twice during two consecutive days for two hours each time. I know that it is very easy to fall into friend zone that way, so right after second skype session I texted her that I want her to be my girl friend. She replied - there is no rush, let's talk online and we'll see where it will lead, I like you a lot, but I'm not sure if I want to be your GF. We have a chance to meet in 2-3 months, and she doesn't mind to go with me wherever I invite her to go. My question is: what do I do from now on? Additional question: did I act right or not at all? Thank you!
Casablanca Posted December 26, 2012 Posted December 26, 2012 I know that it is very easy to fall into friend zone that way, so right after second skype session I texted her that I want her to be my girl friend. She replied - there is no rush, let's talk online and we'll see where it will lead, I like you a lot, but I'm not sure if I want to be your GF. We have a chance to meet in 2-3 months, and she doesn't mind to go with me wherever I invite her to go. My question is: what do I do from now on? Additional question: did I act right or not at all? Thank you! The friend zone only exists when a girl isn't attracted to you physically and/or personally...there is no magic amount of time where you fall from potential boy friend to friend only. So don't worry about that Secondly you two don't live near each other, I wouldn't even try to peruse a relationship unless you will be moving back soon. In the mean time, enjoy her friendship and don't rule out women who live near you as potential relationship material
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