butterflykisses Posted August 16, 2004 Posted August 16, 2004 K i have this "friend"(if I can call her that) who has been friends with my boyfriend for about 8 years. Everytime we go anywhere (my boyfriend and I) the friend is always flirting with him and he use to flirt back. I told my boyfriend that it bothers me and he has sort of stopped doing things that I consider flirting..I don't want to tell the friend how I feel because I dont want to start anything but my boyfriend is getting mad at me because I dont want to go anywhere that she will be . Its kinda hard to do that because she is friends with the same friends that he is friends with so it's like Im keeping him from his friends. It even bothers me when they talk now..I dont know what my problem is ...Im just afraid that they will start flirting again. .and just the way they talk is kinda flirting in a way..man it really sucks because I don't know what to do..I think that if he cares about me then he won't care if I say we can't go where she is..what do you thing?
kellydontwanttasleep Posted August 16, 2004 Posted August 16, 2004 you have to let go of that jealousy it's just gonna **** you up. it will always destroy a relationship. you should read this book Lars Tetens wrote, you can read it at larstetens.com it will make things a lot clearer
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