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Problem with my boyfriend..Need advice FAST!!


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Hey

K this might get quite long but i'll try my best to cut it down. Ok Iam having a problem with my boyfriend listening and understanding..My boyfriend keeps on doing stupid things..for example. He will go out to his friends house say on a Friday night and he will tell me he will be home at 3:00am but by 5:00 am he is still not home and I end up calling him to see where he is and he just says oh I was just about to leave...I have TOLD him in the past that if he is going to be late then call me and let me know so that i dont worry. He has done this numerous times and he just thinks nothing of it..He will say sorry when he gets home but then he will do it again...and again..It kinda seems like he forgets about everything in his life when he is out with his friends but once he's done with them he's always sorry. I don't know what to do..Im getting really fed-up. Another problem I have is he own't help out around the house..eg..dishes..laundry etc etc. I always have to ask him to do something he won't just do it...and so when he does do it it doesn't mean as much to me because I had to ask him. I have told him I have a problem with this as well. Does anyone have any advice about what to do??? Oh one more this he has done..he works night shift and after work in the morning he had some people come over to have a few beers..well after they came here they all went over to his other friends house to drink more..when I got home from work my BF wasn't home and later he called my cell and left me a message saying he's at Lukes and to call when I want him home..so I call him and his friend answers and I could hear his frined trying to wake my bf up because he drank too much and passed out..don't you think that is kinda immature to do that?? My boyfriends 25 and I feel he shouldn't get soo wasted that he can't drive HOME to sleep/

AHHH please help

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Well, first you must understand that GUYS ARE IDIOTS!!!!!!! We will get drunk, we will pass out and we will do stupid things. Boys will be boys! But cheer up! he will come around sometime... if its too much for you, tell him that he needs to grow up before you start loving him again.... Go have a good time with your girlfriends for a few weeks, stay at your mom's, go to the beach, get a mani/pedi, just loosen up! That way, he'll see his mistakes, and get his butt in gear! And, for his sake, you'll be loosened up, being firm, but forgiving!

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well other than these incidents that happen often does he take time to show you he cares for you? If the relationship is causing you nothing but you questioning whether or not he cares, yall need to talk about yalls relationship, and hopefully you can work things out! good luck girl! -Leticia-

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leave him he's a waste of fleash

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