domple Posted December 25, 2012 Posted December 25, 2012 I met this girl around 2 months ago. Everything was going fine then all of a sudden I started to get stressed when I was talking to her and at times even repulsed. I was like WTF thats not normal (im 31). I kept thinking how fat she was but Ive been out with chubby girls before and its not been an issue. We get along and click until this happened. I went to a psychologist and she told me that its because I see her as a person who can see having a future with and all my other ex's were just meaningless and knew deep down it would not work. Well its true this one I think it could definitely work. But as time has gone I stop noticing her flaws but I still find myself feeling stressed around her and I had to rezone her as a friend (told her everything). Shes away till the end oj jan on a holiday and the psychologist said it should be enough time to heal. I just find it weird as i keep contacting her and I get stressed out doing so but I just want to speak to her. Its so emotionally confusing. normally if I dont like a girl i just back off but with her there is something bringing me back. I am thinking about her all the time but its stressing me out and how i DONT want to be with her and then I get moments screaming in my mind "shes perfect for you and I want nothing more than to be with her". Its tearing me to shreds emotionally. For example yesterday I was driving and she facetimed me. I was like HEY ITS HER (Really happy to hear from her", then BANG NO I DONT WANT TO SPEAK TO HER. its totally messed up. does anyone have any advice or tips. I dont want to break something good here
Author domple Posted December 25, 2012 Author Posted December 25, 2012 Also forgot to mention that the phyc said I should date other women and I have been on a couple of dates but no connection. Also I have had anxiety about other stuff and I believe it is playing a part in my emotions, just seeing if anyone has been through emotional stuff or at least in some way to what I'm describing
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