napy666 Posted December 25, 2012 Posted December 25, 2012 Last month I had gotten a message from this guy off the dating site Plenty Of Fish. Him and I started talking and talked for about 5 days or so really hitting it off until he ended up apparently getting his phone cut off and dealt with issues of his own. I had messaged him a while later asking him IF he was still interested in dating and getting to know me or not. He replied to THAT message a week ago we talked briefly and then on and off since. He ends up telling me he's Straight Edge like me, never have drank, smoked, or done drugs. And wants to get married but isn't sure on if he does or doesn't want kids. So anyway I told him what I wanted and what I'm about. So last night he ends up telling me, that he had hung out with his friends 7 hours before talking to me, and because his friend had told him to "try" this drink he goes and does and gets drunk. So when he texted and called me last night I wasn't sure if anything we talked about was sincere or not. He goes and tells me stuff like he wants to get married, he doesn't mind if I don't want kids, then 5 minutes later he says he really wants kids and what would happen if him and I had a kid what would I do? Then he goes on to say how he wants to keep me a secret from his friends/family because they don't need to know everything thats going on with his life. He then says I want to hang out with you and after a while I want things to get excited, and I was thinking "excited" how sexual or excited like we go to a theme park or a concert or whatever. I don't know to me I think it was just the booze talking and I just feel hurt and confused.
RachR Posted December 25, 2012 Posted December 25, 2012 Think of how many people would say things like that when "it's just the booze talking." Not many. You've only been talking for 5 days. Should be pretty easy to get over. Have some standards, block him.
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