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(I am. I got them in exchange for my breasts so I'm clear as a bell on this one.)

 

I'm also the mother to three sons and I can tell you, after having watched males develop for the past 23+ years, 19 is not an adult.

 

Maybe in your case, it's about their parents not knowing how to raise them? A mother who thinks an 11 year old girl is "developed" enough to be with a 19 year old boy is certainly not a bright woman and kinds scary.

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Maybe in your case, it's about their parents not knowing how to raise them? A mother who thinks an 11 year old girl is "developed" enough to be with a 19 year old boy is certainly not a bright woman and kinds scary.

 

I'm not talking about 11 year old girls being developed enough to do anything, we were talking about two teenagers...13 and 19. I don't know what you mean about my case and parents not knowing how to raise girls. I have three sons. The two that are old enough to be involved with girls have only ever been with girls their own age or older.

 

Most girls are fully grown by 11 or 12, but that's not the age that they begin being involved with boys.

 

What exactly is your point?

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Most men I've dated have ranged from my exact age to 3 years older. I have been going slightly older lately, by 5-6 years (I'm 25). Most men I know between the ages of 25-35 prefer women close to their own age--within a few years--and wouldn't go for anyone who wasn't at least of legal drinking age.

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I think the point is that girls are not fully grown by 11. Let's try 22.

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I think the point is that girls are not fully grown by 11. Let's try 22.

 

Maybe you're the one on drugs. :D

 

If you're living in the Western world, you may want to go to your local library and check out a biology book that covers human development. The average age of menarche is 12.5 in the US. This is also roughly the time that girls stop growing (vertically). Again, there's a reason why ...for the past 5.5 thousand years... 13 has been considered the age of transition into adulthood. You may not approve, but nature isn't interested in your approval.

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Nonsense. Plenty of 13 year old girls with a chest/waist/hip ratio that would put the average 20+ year old to shame.

 

Your sexual attraction aside, I was talking biologically and emotionally. But your right, there's plenty of hot 13 year olds out there. Personally I prefer the 14 year olds.

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My age limit is 20+ at the moment - have seen some rather attractive exceptions, but I'm aiming for someone at my age (24).

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I'm not talking about 11 year old girls being developed enough to do anything, we were talking about two teenagers...13 and 19. I don't know what you mean about my case and parents not knowing how to raise girls. I have three sons. The two that are old enough to be involved with girls have only ever been with girls their own age or older.

 

Most girls are fully grown by 11 or 12, but that's not the age that they begin being involved with boys.

 

What exactly is your point?

 

You were complaining about your sons being childish and I said maybe its related to their parents. Most girls are not fully grown by 12, are you kidding me?? Sure you haven't had daughters but that sure can't have blinded you to the people around you . And even if a girl is, most probably she does not have the overall maturity of a late teens boy as much as you want to think otherwise. Can't believe Im discussing this here.

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Can't believe Im discussing this here.

 

Exactly what I'm thinking.

 

Seacrest.......OUT!

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Thank you monicaelise I think that was exactly what happened in my case. I thought about it for years trying to make sense out of it, and you did it with your post ;)

 

Where were your parents ?

I'm the uncle of several 13yr old girls who look like 18yr olds, the thought of some guy hitting on them turns my stomach, as it does to the mothers and fathers of these girls.

I can't believe some parents would consent to something like this.

 

I'm gonna go out on a limb and suspect that monicaelise was in your situation as well.

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You were complaining about your sons being childish and I said maybe its related to their parents. Most girls are not fully grown by 12, are you kidding me?? Sure you haven't had daughters but that sure can't have blinded you to the people around you . And even if a girl is, most probably she does not have the overall maturity of a late teens boy as much as you want to think otherwise. Can't believe Im discussing this here.

 

LOL! Neither can I! I'm sure your sons and daughters are very mature and you're doing a bang-up job as a mother to all of them. My sons to be average boys and average boys develop, physically and mentally, more slowly than girls regardless of who parents them. That's just a fact. If you can't believe you're discussing it, feel free not to. The entire point was that edgy's dynamic is not indicative of any sort of pedophilic tendency on the part of the "boy" involved. They were both kids and it was a simple childhood "romance", not some dirty old pervert praying on a naive little girl in a sandbox. Ffs all they did was kiss. Get over the indignation already lol!

 

As much as people complain about older guys going after younger girls on this board, a 5-7 age difference isn't all that signficant.

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Where were your parents ?

I'm the uncle of several 13yr old girls who look like 18yr olds, the thought of some guy hitting on them turns my stomach, as it does to the mothers and fathers of these girls.

I can't believe some parents would consent to something like this.

 

I'm gonna go out on a limb and suspect that monicaelise was in your situation as well.

 

No. You're incorrect.

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I'm 30.

For me, age of sex is 18-55+ ... as long as i find her attractive [even though age of consent is 15 here].

Relationship age [what i look in a woman] is 22-25.

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Hey I was agreeing with you, silly. Not the opposite.

 

Oh listen im not saying 19 year olds should be making out with 13 year olds but equating a bit of consensual kissing with rape is, in my opinion, an insult to rape victims.
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LOL! Neither can I! I'm sure your sons and daughters are very mature and you're doing a bang-up job as a mother to all of them. My sons to be average boys and average boys develop, physically and mentally, more slowly than girls regardless of who parents them. That's just a fact. If you can't believe you're discussing it, feel free not to. The entire point was that edgy's dynamic is not indicative of any sort of pedophilic tendency on the part of the "boy" involved. They were both kids and it was a simple childhood "romance", not some dirty old pervert praying on a naive little girl in a sandbox. Ffs all they did was kiss. Get over the indignation already lol!

 

As much as people complain about older guys going after younger girls on this board, a 5-7 age difference isn't all that signficant.

 

I don't think people on this forum know what "fact" means. I blame US education for that. And I can assure you that if you had a daughter, you wouldn't be here saying the same things.

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If A 19 year old is not an adult then why can he vote and join the military? My country would trust him to operate heavy weaponry but we can't trust him to know that sleeping with a 13 year old is wrong?

 

If two people are of legal age and there is an age difference that is their business but a 19 and 13 year old is just wrong.

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If A 19 year old is not an adult then why can he vote and join the military? My country would trust him to operate heavy weaponry but we can't trust him to know that sleeping with a 13 year old is wrong?

 

If two people are of legal age and there is an age difference that is their business but a 19 and 13 year old is just wrong.

 

Woggle, re-read the posts. No one was sleeping with anyone.

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Woggle, re-read the posts. No one was sleeping with anyone.

 

If that is the case then it was just sort of a friendship. IN either case when I was 19 I could not have imagined being with somebody who in many cases wouldn't even be out of Jr High yet. I had my own apartment at that point while they would have to ask mommy or daddy if they can go out.

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If that is the case then it was just sort of a friendship. IN either case when I was 19 I could not have imagined being with somebody who in many cases wouldn't even be out of Jr High yet. I had my own apartment at that point while they would have to ask mommy or daddy if they can go out.

 

Yes that's what I've been thinking about all these years, that it didn't seem adequate in the emotional level. But now that I think of it, at age 13 I had already lived abroad with my family and in 3 cities, so maybe I was on the more developed side. I agree with monicaelise though that many 19 yo are still boys (which was apparently not your case) and 13 yo girls are fully formed biologically, which may lead to this kind of teenage romance. Also I am sure my parents knew they gave me a good enough education and that I had my head on my shoulders and wouldn't do anything stupid.

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I don't really buy that argument that one gender is more mature than the other. Get enough liquor into some girls who have just turned legal drinking age and maturity is not what comes to mind. I live close to a number of clubs and there really is no difference between young men and women.

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You know what edgy my dear, only you know what went on and only you are in a position to judge. There are a lot of angry, ignorant, intolerant, silly people in the world. They will judge you no matter what you do and they will speak out about things they know nothing about, precisely because they know nothing about them. When reality catches up, their perspectives invariably change. None of this is black-and-white. The OP wouldn't have gotten pages and pages of responses if it were as clear a binary as some would like to believe. I look at my own 23-year-old and wonder why his younger brother, at 17, is so different than he was at that age...then I think back to my own 13 year old self and realize that I was completely different than both of them. There are no hard, fast rules and anyone that thinks the existence of laws that dictate when you can pay taxes or own property is indicative of anything like actual physical or emotional maturity has an awful lot to learn about both human development and the law. There are reasons why some 13 year olds are held accountable for things like murder, while others, at 17, are not.

 

You had a sweet little childhood thing, something that almost all normal people eventually get around to. Don't let a bunch of nasty folks burdened by their own sadness and ignorance ruin the memory for you. Merry xmas. :)

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Did he ask you to remove your panties?..

 

Does that really work? Who knew!

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I'm a 20 year old male. Lowest I'd go is 17 and the highest for a serious relationship would probably be about 22? One night stands/flings/fwb I couldn't care less how much older they are then me.

 

My ex was 16 and she dated a 24 year old, which I thought was wrong personally.

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If my daughter was 12 or 13 and wanted to date I would say no. His or her age wouldn't matter. There is plenty of time to whore yourself after you are out of my house.

 

But as a guy I would do her with no qualms. That's why there are laws dear reader. That's why there are laws. They protect you from me.

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I'm not talking about 11 year old girls being developed enough to do anything, we were talking about two teenagers...13 and 19. I don't know what you mean about my case and parents not knowing how to raise girls. I have three sons. The two that are old enough to be involved with girls have only ever been with girls their own age or older.

 

Most girls are fully grown by 11 or 12, but that's not the age that they begin being involved with boys.

 

What exactly is your point?

 

Fully grown at 11 or 12? Maybe as far as height goes, but that's it.

 

Sick.

 

I have a 13 yr old niece, yes she is developing and she is a cute girl but if a 19 yr old was looking at her, or thinking they have ANYTHING in common, I would puke.

 

A guy in COLLEGE and a girl in MIDDLE SCHOOL.

 

Seriously? Yeah, that's so totally the same! :sick:

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