confusedhopeful Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 Hi, I've never done anything like this before, but I've seen it's helped a lot of people so why not. I'm nearly 20, in my second year if university and my first ever true love left me two days ago. We were together for 14 months and I'm feeling pretty lost. The reasons are confusing, he was panicking about life and what he would do when he left University, he started bringing me into the confusion by asking me how we would work if we could hardly see each other, as away from University we live about two hours away from each other. He'd been panicking recently because he has no idea what he wants to do with life and I do. I feel like he's so confused with life that he needs someone with him, but that he made the wrong decision, confusing me with all these problems. I haven't spoken to him and I don't plan to. I feel so hurt, but I can't hate him. All I need is some advice about moving on, because I don't know whether he'll regret it and come back. Who knows? Thanks for any feedback.
Veni Vidi Vici Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 This happened to me not too long ago. It's going to be really hard as I'm still dealing with it myself as we speak. don't make the mistakes I made by looking at her twitter and Instagram etc etc because it will only lead to disappointment. If this person really wants to contact you then they will! The only reason I looked at social apps was to see if anything related to me but trust its a lose lose situation. You will either see them having fun and living life without you (even though they are most likely hurting) or you will see something to do with someone else. So this is your warning to stay away.! Goodrich and just know that everyone has been through it before. I would tell you just try and enjoy ur Christmas but I'm nit gunna lie ur gunna think about him constantly. Good luck
na49 Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 This happened to me not too long ago. It's going to be really hard as I'm still dealing with it myself as we speak. don't make the mistakes I made by looking at her twitter and Instagram etc etc because it will only lead to disappointment. If this person really wants to contact you then they will! The only reason I looked at social apps was to see if anything related to me but trust its a lose lose situation. You will either see them having fun and living life without you (even though they are most likely hurting) or you will see something to do with someone else. So this is your warning to stay away.! Goodrich and just know that everyone has been through it before. I would tell you just try and enjoy ur Christmas but I'm nit gunna lie ur gunna think about him constantly. Good luck He pretty much nailed it, but I'll just reinforce what he said. Don't check up on him. You don't want to see what he's up to because it's nothing that will help you move on. whatever you do don't contact him. Post here if you have to. He WILL miss you, and he WILL contact you again. Hopefully by the time this happens, you'll be stronger than you are now and be able to ignore him. As much as we would love for our exes to come back, telling us that they messed up and want a second chance. It's not going to happen. It's not about them anymore, they're not a part of our lives. Now it's all about us. I'm sorry that you have to deal with this so close to holidays and I wish you the best. You're strong enough to get through this.
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