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For once im not complaining about my ex....still need your advice though.


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Alot of you probably have read my posts about my ex girlfriend in the break up forum...well finally after all those months of feeling awful and all that Im starting to feel better about myself and her and care less and less what she does and who shes with...so now i have a reason to post here other than to vent about my ex...anyhow you guys do give good advice and id like to see what you think about this.....coupel weeks ago me and my buddies were down in key west, during th eweek there i met this girl....now, shes a little older than me, she just turned 28 ill be 21 in half a year...we hit it off at a bar, and at first what seemed to just be a bit of a challenege because she is very good looking and older turned into something more....i went back to her place where she was staying with friends and we ended up in her hotub hooking up all night long..now we were both pretty drunk so i figured whatever shes drunk, but before i leave around 6 in the morning she tells me she wants me to come visit her, she lives in orlando...shes a flight attendent and says shell fly me down there for free...so im all into it...weve been talking on the phone about 3 or 4 times a week since ive been home ..shell call me or ill call her....im going down to stay with her over labor day weekend, so what im wondering is...is a girl who is 7 years older than me to old? do you think she is trying to be serious about this, because i know i would really like to find something with someone new that i used to have with my ex, and i really dont want to get strung along if she isn't seroius...any ideas about what i should say/do or not do to see what her deal is?????????

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I don't know why she would want you to come spend the weekend with her if she didn't really like you. I think you should just go and have a great time and if things work out, then great, and if they don't, you didn't lose any money on the trip and you can just come back home and try again with someone else. :) Have fun.

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yeah that what i was thinking too...you just dont think 28 is too old for someone my age????

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I dunno, my dad is 12 years older than my mom, so I guess anything is possible:)

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:p It's all mind over matter - if she don't mind -it don't matter!
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