ThatOneKid Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 Alright guys I'm in a tough situation and really need some outside unbiased help. This past year I began my freshmen year of college. As such I had to leave my girlfriend (dating 2 years) behind (still in high school). When I first got to college I broke up with her in order to experience the whole college scene to the fullest. However, after a month or two we got back together. Yet it turns out that during that period of separation she and my best friend (in high school with her) had messed around. (All at one time) while taking her home from school one day he had leaned over and kissed her. She kissed him back, but as she explained to me only because she was lonely over me and had was needy. He then proceeded to move to the backseat where he waited for her to come back and wouldn't take her home until she did go back there with him. She was shocked and waited for a long awkward time in the infront passenger seat because she really didn't want to do anything, just wanted the initial kiss. But he begged her and so she eventually caved. They begin to make out and then he grabs her by the wrist and pulls his dick out and beggs her to jack him off... she initially refused but then caved and did it "awkwardly" as they both put it (she never got into it and hated it) ... she stopped after a short amount of time because she knew she still had feelings for me. However, a month after this, as stated before we got back together. She finally told me what happened 2 weeks ago and also said that they had made plans to be alone with together just "hanging out as friends"... one of those times was just 3 weeks ago while we were dating in which they were alone in his house.. nothing happened and they had a long deep talk about what I meant to her and how what happened was a huge mistake, but he told her while she was leaving that the only reason he asked her over was to have sex with her. When I asked her did she really think I would be okay with her bring alone like that she replied "I knew you'd be mad, but I thought you wouldn't be that mad, so I did it anyway"... Me and by best friend are threw he tried to apologize but I told him off.. as for me and her, she wants to try to work it out but I'm not sure... I feel like I'm over reacting a little since a lot the stuff she did occurred while we weren't together... In conclusion, i broke up with her because of her being alone with him while we were together even though nothing happened, and she claimed they just hung-out as "friends" she knew my ex-friend wanted more and kept seeing him. She keeps calling me and apologizing non-stop which is leading me to question did i do the right thing in leaving her?... because i still deep down do love her, and she says she loves me but idk.... If you have any opinions on the matter at all please speak up, thanks
Amelie1980 Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 She sounds very immature. either that or she's lying. I would have got out of the car and walked away if I didn't want to do it. No one can make the decision for you. do you want her back? How far away is college? What about when she goes to college....will she be anywhere near you?
Author ThatOneKid Posted December 24, 2012 Author Posted December 24, 2012 Yes i want her back kind of... still deep down in love with her... And my college is under a hour away and when she goes to college she will be with in a 4 hour radius.. and are you saying it looks very immature on my part?
Amelie1980 Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 No if you read my post again I said SHE sounds very immature. No one can make you do anything you don't want to do. I would have got out of the car and refused to get in the back seat with him.
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