Wolf Windshadow Posted August 15, 2004 Posted August 15, 2004 My best friend is female, and I am male.... We keep things platonic, even having seen eachother nude, and giving each other massages, we have not kissed or had sex. thing is she has a BF and I am married, but everybody that meets us 1st time thinks we are an item.... is it that bad that we hug all the time and are not afraid to be close in public? or should we just continue to tell people that we aare close friends that have been friends for 30 years now, since we where tiny children, and just leave it at that? wolf
CurlyIam Posted August 15, 2004 Posted August 15, 2004 I can tell you that: not all "couples" hug and kiss eachother all the time. Quite the contrary, really, unless we're talking about a young couple who hasn't surpassed the "sex haze"... While hugging is important to me - I like to hug my friends a lot, I do not understand the "not afraid to be close" part... Like stay close? Plus what it is that it is bothering me is your preocupation with how the two of you look - -couple-like or not!!! Who cares? As long as this does not bother your wife, her or her bf, I say enjoy your friendship . It is a rare thing my friend, treasure it !!!!
Author Wolf Windshadow Posted August 16, 2004 Author Posted August 16, 2004 Exactly what I mean... people should "keep their noses clean" and not make assumptions.... and as far as my wife and her BF... She tells my wife how best to please me and I tell her BF what she likes all the time so I guess things are good... (knowing someone for 30 years can be usefull )
AfriadofdoubleX Posted August 16, 2004 Posted August 16, 2004 Well, as a high school student, I dont think you should be embaressed at all! Just laugh it off, and say that ur not married!... imao.... AOL Screen Name: Coronadodrumline
o0lovindrama0o Posted August 16, 2004 Posted August 16, 2004 My best friend is a guy and people ALWAYS think we're sleeping together. I mean we're thinking about tee-****s that say "I'm not sleeping with her," or "I'm not sleeping with him." No, not really, I'm just kidding. But, learn not to worry about the rest of the world. You love your wife and family and your best friend, right? What more could you need? After thirty years of friendship, why change now for the benefit of conclusion jumping outsiders?
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